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9/2/2016 4:11:23 PM EDT
tl/dr

Wife wants on open marriage, I dont. Ween subtly mentioning it for a couple of months but never really talked about it

Found out she went out on a lunch date today

Calling an Attorney first thing tuesday

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9/2/2016 4:11:58 PM EDT
[#1]
Pics
9/2/2016 4:12:16 PM EDT
[#2]
Damn man, sorry

Tough lot to draw
9/2/2016 4:12:40 PM EDT
[#3]
WTF you lead her to believe that you were open to being cuckolded? At what point did that seem like a good idea?
9/2/2016 4:13:03 PM EDT
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This.



Eject before u catch an std
9/2/2016 4:13:06 PM EDT
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How long have you been married?
9/2/2016 4:14:24 PM EDT
[#6]
This is exactly why parody threads should be not only allowed, but encouraged.
9/2/2016 4:14:45 PM EDT
[#7]
Good for you. She naïvely wants the best of both worlds. It'll end up in a massive pile of fail.

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9/2/2016 4:14:58 PM EDT
[#8]
Yep.  Can't blame you there.  It's lawyer time.
9/2/2016 4:16:05 PM EDT
[#9]
Ummm... WTF.. I was in a similar situation. Wife kept trying to get me to have a 3some.. Found out later it was only to clear her guilt of already cheating..
9/2/2016 4:16:11 PM EDT
[#10]
Good eject.

Sorry man, hope it all goes smoothly.
9/2/2016 4:17:25 PM EDT
[#11]
I ejected from a year long relationship with a girl that wanted an "open" relationship.

Sorry to hear OP, would have gone insane if she was my wife
9/2/2016 4:17:26 PM EDT
[#12]
Good eject. Get your shit in a storage unit soon so she don't try to destroy it.
9/2/2016 4:17:44 PM EDT
[#13]
By the time she brought it up, she'd be doing it.  Sorry that didn't click instantly, but at least you've recovered.
9/2/2016 4:17:48 PM EDT
[#14]
time for a bit of counseling
9/2/2016 4:17:53 PM EDT
[#15]
No matter how mad/hurt you are, DO NOT let her know that you found out, and are going to see a lawyer. It'd give he the whole weekend to screw you financially.  Just play nice till you talk to a lawyer.
9/2/2016 4:18:45 PM EDT
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Lawyer office should still be open today. I'd call right now, and spend the weekend stashing my stuff.
9/2/2016 4:21:13 PM EDT
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9/2/2016 4:21:39 PM EDT
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This.

Take the first actions and keep a poker face
9/2/2016 4:22:56 PM EDT
[#19]
Good eject.

I'd have been gone as soon as she started talking about it.
9/2/2016 4:23:00 PM EDT
[#20]
Wouldnt that be kind of liberating?
9/2/2016 4:24:33 PM EDT
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BS.  She's "dating" other people.  Time to kick her to the curb.


ETA: OP, if you don't have kids, count your lucky stars.  Cut her loose as soon as you have your things in order, and don't have sex with her anymore.
9/2/2016 4:25:27 PM EDT
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9/2/2016 4:25:41 PM EDT
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5 years
9/2/2016 4:26:35 PM EDT
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Take out a loan if you have to but get yourself a private investigator who is licensed in the state to follow that bitch and get video.....you won't be sorry.
9/2/2016 4:26:51 PM EDT
[#25]
Change all the locks as fast as you can OP.  Good luck
9/2/2016 4:27:50 PM EDT
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tl/dr



Wife wants on open marriage, I dont. Ween subtly mentioning it for a couple of months but never really talked about it



Found out she went out on a lunch date today



Calling an Attorney first thing tuesday



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Why wait? Call one today!

 
9/2/2016 4:28:08 PM EDT
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No such thing
9/2/2016 4:28:19 PM EDT
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Sorry to hear man. Keep your chin up.
9/2/2016 4:28:26 PM EDT
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I kinda been thinking that exactly, but I have been working my ass off and never really thought about it till this week
9/2/2016 4:29:35 PM EDT
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Have an appt Tuesday. Best one in OKC.

Explained to him what was going on and he pretty much said it's a slam dunk for me w/o saying it
9/2/2016 4:30:06 PM EDT
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...to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part.
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Interesting how many folks want to eject rather than adhering to the "for worse" part.
9/2/2016 4:30:08 PM EDT
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There is no such thing as an open relationship.  It's just sanctioned cheating and it never works in any way...
9/2/2016 4:30:47 PM EDT
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This. Go. Go now!
9/2/2016 4:30:53 PM EDT
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BS.  She's "dating" other people.  Time to kick her to the curb.


ETA: OP, if you don't have kids, count your lucky stars.  Cut her loose as soon as you have your things in order, and don't have sex with her anymore.
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BS.  She's "dating" other people.  Time to kick her to the curb.


ETA: OP, if you don't have kids, count your lucky stars.  Cut her loose as soon as you have your things in order, and don't have sex with her anymore.


Step child, and atty said because she isnt biological, it makes things easier.

It's going to devastate the kiddo.
9/2/2016 4:31:59 PM EDT
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Sorry man
9/2/2016 4:32:14 PM EDT
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Interesting how many folks want to eject rather than adhering to the "for worse" part.
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Interesting how many folks want to eject rather than adhering to the "for worse" part.


I dont think For Worse covers adultery, a mortal sin. .
9/2/2016 4:32:37 PM EDT
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Shoes on the couch?! Should have ejected then!

That's a tough deal. Keep your head up and do what's right for you.
9/2/2016 4:32:39 PM EDT
[#38]
Ill buy any guns for $1 each from you.




9/2/2016 4:33:06 PM EDT
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That's fucked up man, Im sorry
9/2/2016 4:33:36 PM EDT
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I'm keeping all the guns. I have receipts in my name, with my CC as payment.
Thankfully the house and my car is separate property. owned them both before the marriage.
9/2/2016 4:33:47 PM EDT
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Re: the kid.  That stinks....at least you're not paying for the kid though because mom decided to be a floozy.  Most aren't that lucky.
9/2/2016 4:34:23 PM EDT
[#42]
You will be much happier soon.







9/2/2016 4:34:32 PM EDT
[#43]
As much as I hate to say it, bail out asap. It is better than waiting to get taken to the cleaners then having her file after your broke. An open marriage is not marriage. It is just having a roommate of the opposite sex.

9/2/2016 4:35:27 PM EDT
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+1. Really sorry to hear that. If she actually had a "date," as in showing interest in another, then yes, a good divorce atty is what you need. Good luck man.
9/2/2016 4:35:36 PM EDT
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As much as I hate to say it, bail out asap. It is better than waiting to get taken to the cleaners then having her file after your broke. An open marriage is not marriage. It is just having s roommate of the opposite sex.

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she has no idea I am doing it, and I have no intention of her finding out until she gets served.
9/2/2016 4:35:56 PM EDT
[#46]
That sucks but your doing the right thing, there is a underlying statement to her question
9/2/2016 4:36:47 PM EDT
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You should have a arfcom get together at your house. At least you know the stock she's picking from, she can pick from the cream of the crop. If you're gonna get cucked , at least let it be one of your own.
9/2/2016 4:37:42 PM EDT
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Interesting how many folks want to eject rather than adhering to the "for worse" part.
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...to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part.


Interesting how many folks want to eject rather than adhering to the "for worse" part.


Well, there is "worse" and then there is "wanting to bang other dudes." If she's unhappy with her romantic or sexual life, she's free to talk to the OP about it and maybe suggest counseling. However, asking for an open marriage...

9/2/2016 4:38:00 PM EDT
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Interesting how many folks want to eject rather than adhering to the "for worse" part.


Screw that. She's given away his tang to another person. I feel that's good enough to eject and she broke their trust and
covenant.
9/2/2016 4:38:44 PM EDT
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What a load of crap. You'll be better off without her.

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