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11/30/2013 8:11:38 PM EDT
Im half drunk,its Saturday night and im leaving it to GD for dating advice


Say you're just starting to get to know a girl, dating etc whatever the fuck you call it these days, how often do you expect to talk to them? I know every situation is different and whatnot, but humor me.
11/30/2013 8:14:23 PM EDT
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Drunk ? call her now.
11/30/2013 8:14:41 PM EDT
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edit: i'm an idiot--totally misread the OP.
 






don't call drunk on a weekend.  i normally touch base every few days, and pretty much every day when it gets to the relationship point.

 
11/30/2013 8:15:21 PM EDT
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I dont chase women or blow up their phones. If she didnt answer my text from this morning, then im not sending her shit until I hear from her.
11/30/2013 8:17:16 PM EDT
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I need a pic...
waiting.....
11/30/2013 8:17:51 PM EDT
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11/30/2013 8:17:57 PM EDT
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No due to OPSEC. Too many arock types around this motherfucker.
11/30/2013 8:18:59 PM EDT
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Seems to me you answered your own question.
11/30/2013 8:19:45 PM EDT
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11/30/2013 8:21:57 PM EDT
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I dont chase women or blow up their phones. If she didnt answer my text from this morning, then im not sending her shit until I hear from her.


Right. Too busy posturing to get laid.
Halluva plan you got there, Rosey.

11/30/2013 8:23:20 PM EDT
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I think you need advice from an actual female. Perhaps she knows

11/30/2013 8:25:20 PM EDT
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Texting?  That is so personal.  I bet she feels really special.
11/30/2013 8:26:27 PM EDT
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If she was really in to you she would have texted you back a long time ago.  Trust me.  Either that or she didn't get the text.
11/30/2013 8:57:43 PM EDT
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If she was really in to you she would have texted you back a long time ago.  Trust me.  Either that or she didn't get the text.
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I dont chase women or blow up their phones. If she didnt answer my text from this morning, then im not sending her shit until I hear from her.


If she was really in to you she would have texted you back a long time ago.  Trust me.  Either that or she didn't get the text.

Thats what im thinking.
11/30/2013 9:15:15 PM EDT
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You'll probably have to wait until the dude that's railing her is finished.
11/30/2013 9:35:51 PM EDT
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I just want to say that I'm damned glad that I don't have to deal with this shit anymore.




11/30/2013 9:44:39 PM EDT
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You talk to them when you feel like it.  If she can't deal with that then she isn't the right one for you.  How is this a hard question?
11/30/2013 9:47:07 PM EDT
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I meant how often should you expect to hear from them.
11/30/2013 9:49:47 PM EDT
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Drunk ? call her now.

I dont chase women or blow up their phones. If she didnt answer my text from this morning, then im not sending her shit until I hear from her.


If she was really in to you she would have texted you back a long time ago.  Trust me.  Either that or she didn't get the text.

Thats what im thinking.

Test her 20-30 more times to make sure the message gets through.  And tape a note to her bedroom window, and one on her windshield.

She'll appreciate the efforts you've made to communicate.
11/30/2013 9:50:19 PM EDT
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Always go Balls deep and Creampie - it's the classy thing to do
11/30/2013 9:55:47 PM EDT
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Ask her what her cunt tastes like.
11/30/2013 9:59:47 PM EDT
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11/30/2013 10:00:23 PM EDT
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Have you tried making her a wooden box and writing a letter about what your wood thinks?
11/30/2013 10:02:12 PM EDT
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one two minute
11/30/2013 10:03:32 PM EDT
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Uh....ask her out for dinner
11/30/2013 10:08:39 PM EDT
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If women are interested they usually text back pretty quickly from what I've noticed or they at least carry on a text convo.
11/30/2013 10:48:12 PM EDT
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You talk to them when you feel like it.  If she can't deal with that then she isn't the right one for you.  How is this a hard question?


I meant how often should you expect to hear from them.




 
My general rule was to take the time frame between when she sent a message and I replied then double it.  If you haven't heard back from her in that time then she gets placed on the bench while you find a new girl.  There is no follow up text, no goodbye text, now WTF text, don't send anything just move on.  In most cases you will hear from her within a week or two.  She might have been blowing you off but the fact that you didn't act like a needy clingy wussy by texting her "what did I do wrong" makes her want to know what the deal is.  It still probably won't work out but more times than not they will send you a message like "Hey" or "What's Up" to see if they can get a reply.  If they do you give a generic answer and then invite them on a date.  No chit chat, you've already past that point.  She's either willing to go on another date or not.  It's your life so make sure you are the one that stays in control of it.












12/1/2013 6:22:39 AM EDT
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  My general rule was to take the time frame between when she sent a message and I replied then double it.  If you haven't heard back from her in that time then she gets placed on the bench while you find a new girl.  There is no follow up text, no goodbye text, now WTF text, don't send anything just move on.  In most cases you will hear from her within a week or two.  She might have been blowing you off but the fact that you didn't act like a needy clingy wussy by texting her "what did I do wrong" makes her want to know what the deal is.  It still probably won't work out but more times than not they will send you a message like "Hey" or "What's Up" to see if they can get a reply.  If they do you give a generic answer and then invite them on a date.  No chit chat, you've already past that point.  She's either willing to go on another date or not.  It's your life so make sure you are the one that stays in control of it.
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You talk to them when you feel like it.  If she can't deal with that then she isn't the right one for you.  How is this a hard question?

I meant how often should you expect to hear from them.

  My general rule was to take the time frame between when she sent a message and I replied then double it.  If you haven't heard back from her in that time then she gets placed on the bench while you find a new girl.  There is no follow up text, no goodbye text, now WTF text, don't send anything just move on.  In most cases you will hear from her within a week or two.  She might have been blowing you off but the fact that you didn't act like a needy clingy wussy by texting her "what did I do wrong" makes her want to know what the deal is.  It still probably won't work out but more times than not they will send you a message like "Hey" or "What's Up" to see if they can get a reply.  If they do you give a generic answer and then invite them on a date.  No chit chat, you've already past that point.  She's either willing to go on another date or not.  It's your life so make sure you are the one that stays in control of it.


And also don't waste your time trying to be around someone that doesn't give a shit about being around you.



12/1/2013 6:25:18 AM EDT
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Step one: Cut a hole in the box.
12/1/2013 6:26:06 AM EDT
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And also don't waste your time trying to be around someone that doesn't give a shit about being around you.



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You talk to them when you feel like it.  If she can't deal with that then she isn't the right one for you.  How is this a hard question?

I meant how often should you expect to hear from them.

  My general rule was to take the time frame between when she sent a message and I replied then double it.  If you haven't heard back from her in that time then she gets placed on the bench while you find a new girl.  There is no follow up text, no goodbye text, now WTF text, don't send anything just move on.  In most cases you will hear from her within a week or two.  She might have been blowing you off but the fact that you didn't act like a needy clingy wussy by texting her "what did I do wrong" makes her want to know what the deal is.  It still probably won't work out but more times than not they will send you a message like "Hey" or "What's Up" to see if they can get a reply.  If they do you give a generic answer and then invite them on a date.  No chit chat, you've already past that point.  She's either willing to go on another date or not.  It's your life so make sure you are the one that stays in control of it.


And also don't waste your time trying to be around someone that doesn't give a shit about being around you.




These hit the nail on the head. Listen to them
12/1/2013 6:40:43 AM EDT
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I meant how often should you expect to hear from them.
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You talk to them when you feel like it.  If she can't deal with that then she isn't the right one for you.  How is this a hard question?

I meant how often should you expect to hear from them.

She's just not that into you, bro
12/1/2013 6:49:47 AM EDT
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I thought for sure OP was a 13er.
12/1/2013 6:52:12 AM EDT
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Text her that you've met someone else and you are breaking it off.
Then a minute later text her that you actually meant to send that to your GF, but that you won't be seeing her either.




She'll be sucking your cock tonight.
12/1/2013 6:56:33 AM EDT
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OP, use this as an example on why you don't want to post serious questions in GD
12/1/2013 1:13:49 PM EDT
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Just starting out I would say every couple of days,
in a serious relationship everyday.
12/1/2013 1:17:58 PM EDT
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She's just not that into you, bro
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You talk to them when you feel like it.  If she can't deal with that then she isn't the right one for you.  How is this a hard question?

I meant how often should you expect to hear from them.

She's just not that into you, bro


I think guys would be in a better position in the dating world if they realized this tid bit..
12/1/2013 1:19:31 PM EDT
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I dont chase women or blow up their phones. If she didnt answer my text from this morning, then im not sending her shit until I hear from her.

Sorry bud 99% of the time if the girl isn't blowing up your phone they just are not into you.  Write it off and move on.
12/1/2013 1:20:28 PM EDT
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And also don't waste your time trying to be around someone that doesn't give a shit about being around you.



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You talk to them when you feel like it.  If she can't deal with that then she isn't the right one for you.  How is this a hard question?

I meant how often should you expect to hear from them.

  My general rule was to take the time frame between when she sent a message and I replied then double it.  If you haven't heard back from her in that time then she gets placed on the bench while you find a new girl.  There is no follow up text, no goodbye text, now WTF text, don't send anything just move on.  In most cases you will hear from her within a week or two.  She might have been blowing you off but the fact that you didn't act like a needy clingy wussy by texting her "what did I do wrong" makes her want to know what the deal is.  It still probably won't work out but more times than not they will send you a message like "Hey" or "What's Up" to see if they can get a reply.  If they do you give a generic answer and then invite them on a date.  No chit chat, you've already past that point.  She's either willing to go on another date or not.  It's your life so make sure you are the one that stays in control of it.


And also don't waste your time trying to be around someone that doesn't give a shit about being around you.





"Why would I want to be with someone , who doesnt want to be with me?"