[ARCHIVED THREAD] - Ask a CBF!!! (Page 1 of 5)
Posted: 5/3/2009 12:48:51 AM EDT
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I love all the "Ask a_______" threads...So I thought I would start one of my own....
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First off, love ya! Serious question: Why do black families always seem to have a a matriarch vs. a patriarch normally seen in white ones? Thank you *giggles*....It must be kinda late because I don't understand what you mean... Often, when I deal with black families, the oldest female seems to be the one "in-charge". I don't normally see that with other ethnic groups. With others, It's gramps or "uncle Joe". |
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First off, love ya! Serious question: Why do black families always seem to have a a matriarch vs. a patriarch normally seen in white ones? Thank you *giggles*....It must be kinda late because I don't understand what you mean... Often, when I deal with black families, the oldest female seems to be the one "in-charge". I don't normally see that with other ethnic groups. With others, It's gramps or "uncle Joe". Ahhh...I get it now... Because most black women tend to be strong...We come from very strong women...However I didn't see that with my parents...They were equals...I also think it depends on where you are from...Men tend to be sorta weak out her on the west coast...Where as men from the south tend to be stronger...That is my best guess... But most women don't want a weak man...I know I think it sucks... Hope that helped!! |
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So, how often you know? lol––not often enough...  Damn good answer! How ya been? I have been really good...Have this icky sinus infection––-but it could be worse *lol*.. How are you?? Doin good. Divorce is almost done. Already dating someone. She's cool as hell, and likes shooting my AK's. 
Oh, my other question is, how often do you shoot? And what kind of music do you like? |
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So, how often you know? lol––not often enough... Damn good answer! How ya been? I have been really good...Have this icky sinus infection––-but it could be worse *lol*.. How are you?? Doin good. Divorce is almost done. Already dating someone. She's cool as hell, and likes shooting my AK's.
Oh, my other question is, how often do you shoot? And what kind of music do you like? Are you having a divorce party?? You totally should... I don't shoot near often as I would like...But I get out there in the back yard and do my thing *lol*... I love all kinds of music...I love everything from Elvis, to Weezer, to Nirvana, to The Doors, to Motown, to New Kids on the Block *giggles*...I love music a lot...So I can basically listen to anything...I like some country––older stuff like Randy Travis...I guess my taste really depends on the mood I am in....But I can't think of a type of music that I don't like... |
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Will you ever post pics in BOTD?
Kidding...I just wanted to thank you for all your posts, it's always nice to have an intelligent woman weigh-in. Not enough of that around here. I don't how this is relevant, but here is a pic of a car I took on a call last week (a dude was driving it) 
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In a controlled situation, my dog can not figure out who to protect or attack when physical contact is made between the wife and I.
When I slap her butt, he pulls on her shirt or pant leg. When she slaps my knee to see his reaction, the dog will try to eat my shoe. How do I make him a Prime Super Awesome Attack dog that can neutralize a threat and protect the person being in distress? This is a picture almost identical to the confused beast. 
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Will you ever post pics in BOTD?
Kidding...I just wanted to thank you for all your posts, it's always nice to have an intelligent woman weigh-in. Not enough of that around here. I don't how this is relevant, but here is a pic of a car I took on a call last week (a dude was driving it) http://i181.photobucket.com/albums/x287/hero_compleqs/IMG_0466.jpg Any BOTD pics will most surely have to be paid for *lol*...I think the hubby could use something for one of his AR's... Thank you very much for your kind words...And whether it is relevant or not...I thank you for the pics... 
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Nice sig line. I notice the stronger female contribution also. Seems like there is a lot of knowledge and good direction aimed at their younger family members. This is true of course with most races. The trick is getting the younger ones to listen.  Getting the young ones to listen has always been a problem...It is just magnified now because liberals have really started to fuck things up...So it i just way worse now... |
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In a controlled situation, my dog can not figure out who to protect or attack when physical contact is made between the wife and I. When I slap her butt, he pulls on her shirt or pant leg. When she slaps my knee to see his reaction, the dog will try to eat my shoe. How do I make him a Prime Super Awesome Attack dog that can neutralize a threat and protect the person being in distress. This is a picture almost identical to the confused beast. http://i228.photobucket.com/albums/ee8/Triumph955i/80657Shelbi_funny_look.jpg Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww––––little doggie!! You have to buy a bigger doggie that is not so damn cute... |
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Are your parents conservative? My mom totally is...My dad...Well lets say he is work in progress... Were your mother's parents conservative? Just wondering about being taught conservative values vs. deciding on one's own or influenced by a spouse. My wife came from NY lib parents but, couldn't refute the logical arguments I made and she is now fairly conservative. |
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Are your parents conservative? My mom totally is...My dad...Well lets say he is work in progress... Were your mother's parents conservative? Just wondering about being taught conservative values vs. deciding on one's own or influenced by a spouse. My wife came from NY lib parents but, couldn't refute the logical arguments I made and she is now fairly conservative. My granparents....Hmm I don't know...My grandmother died before I was born...But she was a teacher––and had very conservative values...My grandfather's (who was awesome) best friend was Chesty Puller...So my guess is yeah they were conservative... I think I was taught those values though...Like abortion, and guns etc...My dad was a police officer...So I guess I was raised with those thoughts and values... |
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In a controlled situation, my dog can not figure out who to protect or attack when physical contact is made between the wife and I. When I slap her butt, he pulls on her shirt or pant leg. When she slaps my knee to see his reaction, the dog will try to eat my shoe. How do I make him a Prime Super Awesome Attack dog that can neutralize a threat and protect the person being in distress? This is a picture almost identical to the confused beast. http://i228.photobucket.com/albums/ee8/Triumph955i/80657Shelbi_funny_look.jpg My sister had a whippet that had that problem. One day they were walking along a country road when a neighbor came by with his dogs. Whippet got all excited and bit HER! Her son said, "Gee, mom, he had to bite SOMEthing!"
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Quoted: Will you ever post pics in BOTD? Kidding...I just wanted to thank you for all your posts, it's always nice to have an intelligent woman weigh-in. Not enough of that around here. I don't how this is relevant, but here is a pic of a car I took on a call last week (a dude was driving it) http://i181.photobucket.com/albums/x287/hero_compleqs/IMG_0466.jpg You wouldn't happen to live in San Fran would you? Howdie E  , interesting thread. |
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Will you ever post pics in BOTD?
Kidding...I just wanted to thank you for all your posts, it's always nice to have an intelligent woman weigh-in. Not enough of that around here. I don't how this is relevant, but here is a pic of a car I took on a call last week (a dude was driving it) http://i181.photobucket.com/albums/x287/hero_compleqs/IMG_0466.jpg You wouldn't happen to live in San Fran would you? Howdie E , interesting thread.
I try I try....
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Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Will you ever post pics in BOTD? Kidding...I just wanted to thank you for all your posts, it's always nice to have an intelligent woman weigh-in. Not enough of that around here. I don't how this is relevant, but here is a pic of a car I took on a call last week (a dude was driving it) http://i181.photobucket.com/albums/x287/hero_compleqs/IMG_0466.jpg You wouldn't happen to live in San Fran would you? Howdie E , interesting thread.I try I try.... Hey, I have a question: Where the fuck does ebonics come from, and why do some people (Blacks and caucasian hood rats alike) feel the need to speak it. |
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So, your signature seems to imply that you don't like Obama. But don't you believe it is a positive thing that the U.S. has elected a non-white to the Presidency? Heading for bed now. Will check back if I wake up. Damn all my sig line does is imply??? I gotta step up my game... At what cost??? The loss of everything that is American?? I don't care if there was a white guy in the white house––if you are fucking up––you are fucking up no matter your color...So if you are asking me was I one of the ones crying and jumping up and down on election night....Uhhhhh no... Obama can suck a––-well you catch my drift....
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My grandfather's (who was awesome) best friend was Chesty Puller...
Holy crap! Really?!? That's awesome!!!!! Crazy right??? Yeah they were really really good friends...My mom says he was just awesome...But really big (I mean to a little girl) and had an awesome presence... |
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In a controlled situation, my dog can not figure out who to protect or attack when physical contact is made between the wife and I. When I slap her butt, he pulls on her shirt or pant leg. When she slaps my knee to see his reaction, the dog will try to eat my shoe. How do I make him a Prime Super Awesome Attack dog that can neutralize a threat and protect the person being in distress? This is a picture almost identical to the confused beast. http://i228.photobucket.com/albums/ee8/Triumph955i/80657Shelbi_funny_look.jpg My sister had a whippet that had that problem. One day they were walking along a country road when a neighbor came by with his dogs. Whippet got all excited and bit HER! Her son said, "Gee, mom, he had to bite SOMEthing!" That's how the little guy gets. I'm looking for ways to get him to do otherwise without electro-collar-shock-therapy, but feel that he might be on that path. He is really protective to both of us, which is really cool, yet confusing to him. But like a game of Guitar Hero duel, someone has to win. I want it to be me. j\k
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Will you ever post pics in BOTD?
Kidding...I just wanted to thank you for all your posts, it's always nice to have an intelligent woman weigh-in. Not enough of that around here. I don't how this is relevant, but here is a pic of a car I took on a call last week (a dude was driving it) http://i181.photobucket.com/albums/x287/hero_compleqs/IMG_0466.jpg You wouldn't happen to live in San Fran would you? Howdie E , interesting thread.
I try I try.... Hey, I have a question: Where the fuck does ebonics come from, and why do some people (Blacks and caucasian hood rats alike) feel the need to speak it. I think ebonics came from people who are lazy...And when I say that I mean too lazy to pronounce words properly...I think some might say that it is regional...Like having an accent––but I don't think so... People speak it because they think it makes them cool....Na'mean????
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you probably don't have an answer to this, but i will ask anyway. where are all the conservative women in the north east? are they hiding? or, just non-existant? They are not there....You have to move.... damn. well, i don't want to be away from my kids. so, i guess i will just be stuck with the smelly hippies. 
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