[ARCHIVED THREAD] - Well I lost my son. (Page 3 of 9)
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prayers and condolences. We've lost one too. You'll have "normal" days when suddenly out of the blue you'll suddenly choke up. It's OK. let the tears flow to honor his memory and to get your own healing. I went maybe 3-4 months 'empty' - robotic even. Then one day it hit me like a ton of bricks. The funny thing was that my wife was comforted to know how much it hurt me since my silence made her think I didn't care that much. I did, but some things are just too big to react to at once. So the heart has a way of dribbling it out little by little. we weep because we miss them and what 'might have been'. But there's hope that if we live in honor we will one day meet them face to face again without shame.  BTDT, as well. I agree with most of this post, hang in there, OP. |
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This made me laugh |
