There comes a quiet afternoon, and then a morning... (Page 33 of 33)
The Happy Hessian & his Wonderful Wife!
Joined:
Oct 2002
Posts:
10873
EE: 100% (118)
TN, USA
|
Hope this is ok to post on here Karla. RIP John. Prayers to Karla and family and friends.
Obituary for John Suttie |
Official People's Party of .40 S&W- Commander of Cold Weather Operations and the Underground Support of our Canadian Brothers
|
Originally Posted By kris55:
Hope this is ok to post on here Karla. RIP John. Prayers to Karla and family and friends. Obituary for John Suttie |
“Go out and find the good in every day” - usjet
|
Originally Posted By kris55:
Hope this is ok to post on here Karla. RIP John. Prayers to Karla and family and friends. Obituary for John Suttie Karla, I hope you are doing OK. I hope you have a peaceful New Year. Mike S. |
|
Originally Posted By kris55:
Hope this is ok to post on here Karla. RIP John. Prayers to Karla and family and friends. Obituary for John Suttie |
Team Member since 11NOV2010 courtesy of TheRocketmac, Thank You Sir.
"People sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf.”-George Orwell
I'd suck those toes until her tits inverted
"People sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf.”-George Orwell
I'd suck those toes until her tits inverted
| Thanks for linking me to this - I did post a comment in his tribute wall. I have to admit to shedding a few tears as I did - what an impact John had on me...on us. I miss interacting with him here. I miss reading his posts. His energy and positivity, even on his worst days, flowed through his words. But, above it all, I will remain committed to finding the good in every day. I found it here today when I got a chance to reflect back on John's legacy to us. Blessed. |
COL, U.S. Army (Ret.)
"If they're not shooting at you, you're not trying hard enough. Now move out and draw fire!"
"If they're not shooting at you, you're not trying hard enough. Now move out and draw fire!"
|
Originally Posted By jsucraig: I think it would be nice if @EdAvilaSr, @Aimless, @Hessian-1, @Devious6, @EBR666, or other site staff would post a comment for all of Arfcom on John's obituary. I don't think that it would be inappropriate since Karla felt us important enough to mention us in his obituary. I do think it would be inappropriate for it to be an Arfcom 'firemission' on his obituary. 
|
Life is like a road. Some lives are long and some short, but you shall surely have many bumps along the way; so make sure you have faith or pure force of character as shock absorbers to ride it out. EdSr 2017
|
Originally Posted By Ol_Boltface:
@Devious6 I don’t think what you wrote is showing up Wish I'd been able to know him I person - seems like more of an amazing person than we even knew. |
COL, U.S. Army (Ret.)
"If they're not shooting at you, you're not trying hard enough. Now move out and draw fire!"
"If they're not shooting at you, you're not trying hard enough. Now move out and draw fire!"
|
Originally Posted By Devious6: It's there now - had to be approved before they allow it to post. Mark Volk. Wish I'd been able to know him I person - seems like more of an amazing person than we even knew. You guys both did outstanding jobs putting emotions to words. Made us all look good, as well John! Thanks you both for doing that.. |
“Go out and find the good in every day” - usjet
|
Originally Posted By EdAvilaSr:
Done Originally Posted By EdAvilaSr:
Originally Posted By jsucraig: I think it would be nice if @EdAvilaSr, @Aimless, @Hessian-1, @Devious6, @EBR666, or other site staff would post a comment for all of Arfcom on John's obituary. I don't think that it would be inappropriate since Karla felt us important enough to mention us in his obituary. I do think it would be inappropriate for it to be an Arfcom 'firemission' on his obituary. |
Team Member since 11NOV2010 courtesy of TheRocketmac, Thank You Sir.
"People sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf.”-George Orwell
I'd suck those toes until her tits inverted
"People sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf.”-George Orwell
I'd suck those toes until her tits inverted
|
Originally Posted By Devious6:
Thanks for linking me to this - I did post a comment in his tribute wall. I have to admit to shedding a few tears as I did - what an impact John had on me...on us. I miss interacting with him here. I miss reading his posts. His energy and positivity, even on his worst days, flowed through his words. But, above it all, I will remain committed to finding the good in every day. I found it here today when I got a chance to reflect back on John's legacy to us. Blessed. |
Team Member since 11NOV2010 courtesy of TheRocketmac, Thank You Sir.
"People sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf.”-George Orwell
I'd suck those toes until her tits inverted
"People sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf.”-George Orwell
I'd suck those toes until her tits inverted
|
Originally Posted By kris55:
Hope this is ok to post on here Karla. RIP John. Prayers to Karla and family and friends. Obituary for John Suttie |
|
Originally Posted By jsucraig:
Thank you, nicely done sir. Originally Posted By jsucraig:
Originally Posted By EdAvilaSr:
Originally Posted By jsucraig: I think it would be nice if @EdAvilaSr, @Aimless, @Hessian-1, @Devious6, @EBR666, or other site staff would post a comment for all of Arfcom on John's obituary. I don't think that it would be inappropriate since Karla felt us important enough to mention us in his obituary. I do think it would be inappropriate for it to be an Arfcom 'firemission' on his obituary. Karla, if by chance you get back on the site, know that many continue to pray for you. Many here were blessed and touched by John through his posts. @usjet |
|
Originally Posted By jsucraig: I think it would be nice if @EdAvilaSr, @Aimless, @Hessian-1, @Devious6, @EBR666, or other site staff would post a comment for all of Arfcom on John's obituary. I don't think that it would be inappropriate since Karla felt us important enough to mention us in his obituary. I do think it would be inappropriate for it to be an Arfcom 'firemission' on his obituary. I also added some notes for John and Karla. EBR |
|
Originally Posted By Devious6:
Thanks for linking me to this - I did post a comment in his tribute wall. I have to admit to shedding a few tears as I did - what an impact John had on me...on us. I miss interacting with him here. I miss reading his posts. His energy and positivity, even on his worst days, flowed through his words. But, above it all, I will remain committed to finding the good in every day. I found it here today when I got a chance to reflect back on John's legacy to us. Blessed. |
|
Dear AR15 family,
These past three weeks have been filled with many ups and downs. The grief comes in waves. I read a little of these posts daily and they are so touching to me. I was finding every time I attempted to “post” I came to tears and could not finish. I’ m back at work , it helps. Since John passed our well ran dry, our 18 year old cat “Rosie” became blind, the service light came on in the car telling me I am 600 miles over due. My first thought was just to go to bed and rest for a long time, then I had to get real. All is being taken care of and our Rosie is adapting quite well with her situation. She can find her food, cat box and resting place in the sun with ease. If she gets in a room and is cornered she howls like crazy and Lucky (20 year old deaf cat) Tia (dog) and I run to rescue her. I think she gets a kick out of that. I had to find our marriage certificate for a social security issue and couldn’t find it anywhere. I was looking through John’s desk and it was no where to be seen. John was cremated and his ashes are in his closet on a shelf for now. I went in the closet and said “John, I need our marriage license “. I look down and there was another file cabinet I hadn’t seen before, well there it was along with other papers. “thanks John” These little punctuations during the day are the “good in the day” for me. Sorry I’m rambling on but like you were a help to John, your a help to me. Take care all. Karla . |
Go From Darkness Unto Light
|
Originally Posted By tree-hugger:
Please ramble here often.  As much as looked forward to Johns posts, I think it’s good for us too to see & read how you’re doing & seeing the ‘good’. It’s just positive all around... |
“Go out and find the good in every day” - usjet
|
Originally Posted By usjet:
Dear AR15 family, These past three weeks have been filled with many ups and downs. The grief comes in waves. I read a little of these posts daily and they are so touching to me. I was finding every time I attempted to “post” I came to tears and could not finish. I’ m back at work , it helps. Since John passed our well ran dry, our 18 year old cat “Rosie” became blind, the service light came on in the car telling me I am 600 miles over due. My first thought was just to go to bed and rest for a long time, then I had to get real. All is being taken care of and our Rosie is adapting quite well with her situation. She can find her food, cat box and resting place in the sun with ease. If she gets in a room and is cornered she howls like crazy and Lucky (20 year old deaf cat) Tia (dog) and I run to rescue her. I think she gets a kick out of that. I had to find our marriage certificate for a social security issue and couldn’t find it anywhere. I was looking through John’s desk and it was no where to be seen. John was cremated and his ashes are in his closet on a shelf for now. I went in the closet and said “John, I need our marriage license “. I look down and there was another file cabinet I hadn’t seen before, well there it was along with other papers. “thanks John” These little punctuations during the day are the “good in the day” for me. Sorry I’m rambling on but like you were a help to John, your a help to me. Take care all. Karla . So many times the "goodness" in the day was John, himself, sharing his thoughts. And he's still with us all showing us the way. Mark |
COL, U.S. Army (Ret.)
"If they're not shooting at you, you're not trying hard enough. Now move out and draw fire!"
"If they're not shooting at you, you're not trying hard enough. Now move out and draw fire!"
Infantry, sales, nurse. Shoulda kept the rifle...
Joined:
Jul 2010
Posts:
3593
EE: 100% (3)
ME, USA
|
Glad to see your post, Karla. You might not be aware of what Arfcom really can do. We have subject matter experts from nearly every field here, ranging from particle physics (not kidding) to plumbers, electricians, and HVAC folks. This place is also full of folks willing to drive a day or more just to help someone out. If you ever find yourself in need of anything, be it money, a work crew, or just a kind ear, please do not hesitate to ask! I have watched this place raise tens of thousands of dollars in mere hours for someone in need. I also know of groups of folks that have never met all driving hundreds of miles to go lend physical assistance. The Hive is amazing here when given a task. I’d suggest making a post in Team or General Discussion with “Help” in the title. We are here for you. Randy |
Proud Member of Team Ranstad. RIP RetMAC, we'll keep the mission alive.
Straddling the thin plastic line between psych nurse and patient.
Now say 3 FBHOs and go in peace, my son-PorchDog
Survivor of ARFBORTION 2016
Straddling the thin plastic line between psych nurse and patient.
Now say 3 FBHOs and go in peace, my son-PorchDog
Survivor of ARFBORTION 2016
|
Originally Posted By Maine_11B_to_Nurse:
Glad to see your post, Karla. You might not be aware of what Arfcom really can do. We have subject matter experts from nearly every field here, ranging from particle physics (not kidding) to plumbers, electricians, and HVAC folks. This place is also full of folks willing to drive a day or more just to help someone out. If you ever find yourself in need of anything, be it money, a work crew, or just a kind ear, please do not hesitate to ask! I have watched this place raise tens of thousands of dollars in mere hours for someone in need. I also know of groups of folks that have never met all driving hundreds of miles to go lend physical assistance. The Hive is amazing here when given a task. I’d suggest making a post in Team or General Discussion with “Help” in the title. We are here for you. Randy |
|
I just spent 3 hours reading this. I’m in awe of what a wonderful man John was. This thread has changed my outlook on life. Seriously. I will refer back to this whenever I get complacent in life. May the Lord hold John in his arms, and bless you daily Karla. You have my deepest condolences. |
The Happy Hessian & his Wonderful Wife!
Joined:
Oct 2002
Posts:
10916
EE: 100% (118)
TN, USA
|
Karla,
Been thinking of you and John the past few days. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling. I pray that God grants you respite from your grief. We are here for you should you need us. Cherish the good. |
If you would do a thing, do it with thy might! Ecclesiastes 9-10
In totus res peto ponder
(In all things seek balance)
In totus res peto ponder
(In all things seek balance)
|
My Dear Arfcom Family,
Sorry I haven’t been in touch. For some reason I could not get on this site I lost the page where I have responded then found it tonight. It’s already February, hard to believe. I am doing so much better and not crying daily. I did have 1 major set back, on January 25, yes 1 month from John passing, our 18 year old cat Rosie died. I did the “ugly “ cry, couldn’t help it and one of our dear friends followed me home and dug a hole to bury her. I am so grateful for the help of our family and friends . My Lucky ‘25 year old cat” and my Tia dog are there with excitement when I get home and I love that time. I hope all is well with you, please keep in touch and I will try to maintain this site. Karla |
Go From Darkness Unto Light
|
Originally Posted By Hessian-1:
Karla, Been thinking of you and John the past few days. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling. I pray that God grants you respite from your grief. We are here for you should you need us. Cherish the good. It was so good to see your post when I checked today - it is always great to hear how you are doing and what's going on in your life. You have every right to have those crying moments. And when you lose a loved cat so soon after John's passing it is even more deserved. I follow John's mantra every day and share it with everyone I can. There is good in every day - we sometimes have to look harder but committing to finding it is life changing. I sometimes refer to the approach as P3 - the Power of Positive Pessimism. It might seem bad, but it can always be worse. :-) Stop by when you can and if we're not answering quickly enough you can always PM us to get our attention. Sending thoughts and love your way!! Mark |
COL, U.S. Army (Ret.)
"If they're not shooting at you, you're not trying hard enough. Now move out and draw fire!"
"If they're not shooting at you, you're not trying hard enough. Now move out and draw fire!"
|
Karla,
It's great to hear from you even though some of the news is not happy. It sounds like you are coping a lot better. I have been thinking of you and John A LOT lately. It's maple sugaring time here in the northeast. My son and I tapped 35 trees this past weekend. We are hoping that we have a better year than last year. Every time I check the sap flow I chuckle about what you told me John did when he got the syrup. Poured it all over the vanilla ice cream. It made me so happy that he was able to enjoy one of his favorite foods. The wife and I keep you in our prayers. EBR/Steve |
|
Karla..
Just checking in to say hello and wish you well. Beautiful day here in eastern Maine. Temp in the high 30s. We put out several taps today and the sap was dripping! Still ~2ft of snow on the ground but it's going fast. Enjoying the day and tapping trees made me think of you. Hope all is well & give us an update from time to time. ..FN.. |
The 12 year old you take shooting today will VOTE in 6 years.
So will the one that doesn't shoot so do the right thing
So will the one that doesn't shoot so do the right thing
|
Thinking of John today. The sky is beginning to lighten up here in northeast PA - looks to be a beautiful start to the day. This is one of those days where it's easy to find the good...and John's inspiration always helps me when it's not so easy.
Sending our thoughts out to you, too, Karla. |
COL, U.S. Army (Ret.)
"If they're not shooting at you, you're not trying hard enough. Now move out and draw fire!"
"If they're not shooting at you, you're not trying hard enough. Now move out and draw fire!"
The Happy Hessian & his Wonderful Wife!
Joined:
Oct 2002
Posts:
13003
EE: 100% (118)
TN, USA
|
I know it's been several years but I just read the entire thread and it got really dusty in here. I remember John and Karla and continue to pray for them. I hope Karla has a Blessed Christmas. Merry Christmas! |
If you would do a thing, do it with thy might! Ecclesiastes 9-10
In totus res peto ponder
(In all things seek balance)
In totus res peto ponder
(In all things seek balance)
|
Can’t believe it’s been that long now. Prayers and wishes for a Merry Christmas for Karla Edit: I wrote down John’s quote about every day having something good in it. I still have it in my desk drawer here. |
Originally Posted By walther1978:
Why are old people in diapers running this country into the ground?
Why are old people in diapers running this country into the ground?
|
I stamped his quote into a piece of scrap aluminum that I cleaned up at my last job. I'm still trying to find a suitable place to mount it. For those who don't know it, here it is: Attached File |
"This all smells of democrats playing chess while republicans are playing coloring books"-fatcat4620
|
Originally Posted By Gingerbreadman: I stamped his quote into a piece of scrap aluminum that I cleaned up at my last job. I'm still trying to find a suitable place to mount it. For those who don't know it, here it is: https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/145837/Screenshot_20211230-231539_2_png-2222735.JPG Thanks for posting that. I miss John's wisdom and attitude. |