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OK, USA
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Posted: 4/9/2019 8:21:15 AM EDT
I am logged in to my husband's account. He was a police officer and took his own life on 10/07/18.. I didnt really know where to turn and I've wondered if you knew him and noticed his absence. To all LEO's, please take care of yourself. I could have never imagined this pain and the hole that I feel.
I'm lost... |
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Posted: 4/7/2019 10:52:34 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 1975]
[#1]
I’m sorry to hear that.
I’ll be the first to admit I can’t imagine what you’re going through. |
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VA, USA
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Posted: 4/7/2019 10:53:27 PM EDT
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Posted: 4/7/2019 10:55:01 PM EDT
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Sorry for your loss. If you go to the top of this page there is a topic with ears for those who need an ear to talk to.
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Posted: 4/7/2019 10:55:20 PM EDT
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Very sorry for your loss. Prayers for your family.
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MP, USA
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Posted: 4/7/2019 10:55:33 PM EDT
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Prayers sent to you and your loved ones.
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Posted: 4/7/2019 10:56:09 PM EDT
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Very sorry for your loss.
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Posted: 4/7/2019 10:56:10 PM EDT
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I'm sorry for your loss ma'am.
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TX, USA
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Posted: 4/7/2019 10:56:11 PM EDT
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So sorry for your loss.
What Department? We have many LEO's from OK. |
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Posted: 4/7/2019 10:56:41 PM EDT
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Oh man, so sorry to hear that but thank you for letting us know.
Will keep you and your family in our prayers. |
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Posted: 4/7/2019 10:56:46 PM EDT
[Last Edit: SCIF]
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Posted: 4/7/2019 10:57:00 PM EDT
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So sorry for your loss.
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Posted: 4/7/2019 10:58:00 PM EDT
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I am terribly sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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OK, USA
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:00:38 PM EDT
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Kickapoo Tribal police
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:00:52 PM EDT
[Last Edit: Ninering51]
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you must be going through. For what it's worth, my uncle was a cop, my cousin was a cop and my brother was a cop. I don't claim any special insight, just that I've seen them when they were up and I've seen them when they were down.
K9346 was a valued member of our community and will be sorely missed. The department should have resources to help you in your time of need. Use them. Don't let one casualty turn into two. Our thoughts are with you. |
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:05:00 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By K9346:
Kickapoo Tribal police  Well besides my father anyway |
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:05:44 PM EDT
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Ma'am I'm sorry for your loss. I retired from law enforcement last year after 28 years. It's hard on the body and soul to see what humans can do to each other over and over. We tend to try to leave it in the squad room and not to take it home. Self medicating tends to be a bad habit as well as not asking for help. Your husband seems to have had an account over 10 year with a low post count so he probably didn't post a lot and stayed in the technical forums for his favorite weapons. You might want to check the LEO forum - brothers of the shield
A good description of what cops see, hear, and feel |
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:06:58 PM EDT
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I am sorry for your loss.
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:07:09 PM EDT
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sorry for your loss, that's so tragic.
I dunno how far back it goes, but if you go to the top of the page and click on subscriptions it might show some threads your husband was a part of.. |
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:08:21 PM EDT
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so sorry for your loss. I will be keeping you and your family in my prayers
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:08:31 PM EDT
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Sorry for your loss, ma'am. 24 yr Corr Officer here. Finally retired. Many here have felt the pressures of job/duty.
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:08:50 PM EDT
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I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that some prayer warriors are going to lift you up and ask for healing and grace for you.
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TX, USA
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:08:52 PM EDT
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I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:08:55 PM EDT
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Very sorry to hear this news.
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OK, USA
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:09:38 PM EDT
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How do I add a picture?
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VA, USA
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:11:19 PM EDT
[Last Edit: Fuddy_McBootlicker]
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(800) 273-8255
Pain doesn't go away after suicide, it just migrates to those left behind. I lost a friend many years ago to suicide and from my experience, the only advice I can give is to not mull over what to say to someone contemplating it, but instead to simply listen. Don't judge, don't give advice, don't try to provide all the answers, just listen. |
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:14:11 PM EDT
[#26]
Damn, sorry for your loss ma'am, will be praying for you and your family...
RIP.... 
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:14:37 PM EDT
[Last Edit: Sev89]
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By K9346:
How do I add a picture? if you don't have that, IM me a link and i'll put it up for you eta: @k9346 |
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:15:46 PM EDT
[#28]
I am sorry for your loss and prayers sent.
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:16:27 PM EDT
[Last Edit: CarrierGas]
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So sorry for your loss. Lots of folks come and go on the board, people may disappear for a long time and with so many members it is easy to miss an absence.
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:17:17 PM EDT
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Click the icon of a mountain next to the icon of a chain link.
And God bless you. |
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:19:32 PM EDT
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:21:33 PM EDT
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:21:46 PM EDT
[#33]
My condolences, Ma'am.
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NY, USA
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:22:21 PM EDT
[#34]
I'm sorry for your loss. Prayers sent.
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:23:10 PM EDT
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my sincerest condolences
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:28:31 PM EDT
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Deepest condolences and prayers inbound.
Please reach out if you need something.Out of curiosity, would you post his age? |
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TN, USA
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:32:54 PM EDT
[#37]
Sorry for your loss. As others have said, reach out if you need to talk to someone, there's a thread at the top of the forum.
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CA, USA
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:33:47 PM EDT
[#38]
My condolences to you and yours.
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:33:50 PM EDT
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You are in my prayers.
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USA
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:34:07 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By K9346:
I am logged in to my husband's account. He was a police officer and took his own life on 10/07/18.. I didnt really know where to turn and I've wondered if you knew him and noticed his absence. To all LEO's, please take care of yourself. I could have never imagined this pain and the hole that I feel. I'm lost... Someone breaks a leg bone, from falling off their motorbike - oxygen, lights an sirens to the hospital. Yet no real mechanism exists for dealing with sick brains. And "strokes" are not an illness of the brain, those are illnesses of the CV system. I am really very sorry for your loss. If you don't hurt too much, and wish to share any of the good times with us - we are all ears. |
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:37:18 PM EDT
[#41]
You will be in our prayers.
Apparently your husband did not participate in our verified LE forum program. The survivors carry the pain and burden. |
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USA
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:37:36 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By K9346:
How do I add a picture? Membership- Bronze Username: K9346 Again, condolences. |
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TX, USA
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:39:46 PM EDT
[#43]
Sorry for your loss. I imagine that if you need any help there are plenty here willing to try and do what we can.
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:41:02 PM EDT
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Sorry for your loss ma'am.
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:41:25 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By Lug1:
Very sorry for your loss. Prayers for your family. |
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:42:58 PM EDT
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I'm sorry for your loss, you and your family will be in my prayers.
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AZ, USA
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:47:00 PM EDT
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PM me if you would like to talk. Been in that line of work for about 25 years and can truly empathize. Those demons plague many of us. Prayers to you and your family
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:48:11 PM EDT
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Very sorry for your loss.
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WA, USA
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:48:36 PM EDT
[#49]
The Job takes its toll, too often on the wrong people. You will be in my prayers.
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Posted: 4/7/2019 11:53:24 PM EDT
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Sorry for your loss.
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