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Posted: 12/26/2015 1:22:13 AM EDT
[Last Edit: Paul]
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By odontia32m:
Pray for me. I am now in my 35 foot RV in Oklahoma" Prayers sent. This time of year can be very emotional but remember the reason for the season. |
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Posted: 12/26/2015 2:43:44 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By odontia32m: Thanks everyone for all the the prayer. Thanks again Ed. You're good people brother. I know you're not in IN anymore, but I'll PM you my number in case you don't have it anymore. Call anytime. |
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Posted: 12/26/2015 11:45:45 AM EDT
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Thanks everyone for the prayers and offers. Today suck but less than yesterday. Ed I used to be tough as they com but some where along the line I lost that. Hell I was Armyband never pictured me like this,
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Posted: 12/26/2015 12:02:19 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By odontia32m:
Thanks everyone for the prayers and offers. Today suck but less than yesterday. Ed I used to be tough as they com but some where along the line I lost that. Hell I was Armyband never pictured me like this, It is one day at a time,bud.One day at a time! 
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Posted: 12/26/2015 10:22:36 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By EdAvilaSr:
It is one day at a time,bud.One day at a time! Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By EdAvilaSr:
Originally Posted By odontia32m:
Thanks everyone for the prayers and offers. Today suck but less than yesterday. Ed I used to be tough as they com but some where along the line I lost that. Hell I was Armyband never pictured me like this, It is one day at a time,bud.One day at a time! Went and cooked for my parents. Then me and my God Father made an inverted L antenna. Kept my mind busy. |
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Posted: 12/26/2015 11:26:59 PM EDT
[Last Edit: odontia32m]
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1st world problems right. Edit I was not in the Army band. I was a medic.
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Posted: 12/26/2015 11:52:57 PM EDT
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Some amazing people here in this community and while I hope I never have cause to avail myself of the help offered, it's pretty incredible to know it's there. Thank you all, really speaks volumes as to the caliber of individuals here that this thread was started at all and is still going.
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Posted: 12/26/2015 11:55:51 PM EDT
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Makes me proud to be a member.
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VA, USA
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Posted: 12/29/2015 12:44:35 AM EDT
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I don't usually link to other sites but this one is an exception.
http://www.timebomb2000.com/vb/showthread.php?481429-My-son-is-dead.-Your-prayers-are-respectfully-requested |
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Posted: 1/3/2016 7:02:48 PM EDT
[Last Edit: odontia32m]
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thanks all. New years was tough spent by myself. Court is next week on Thursday wish me luck. My lawyer acts like he can get it dropped or a year of deferment. Anyway I have a 1600 mile quest next week. Thanks for all the emails and prayers. I even had overs of money, what selflessness.
Bob Eta. When ever I can afford a life membership, it is mine. |
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Posted: 1/3/2016 7:09:05 PM EDT
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We are happy to see you doing well and looking forward to a better future
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Posted: 1/3/2016 7:28:51 PM EDT
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Thanks guys for helping out the group.
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Posted: 1/3/2016 11:17:20 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By odontia32m:
thanks all. New years was tough spent by myself. Court is next week on Thursday wish me luck. My lawyer acts like he can get it dropped or a year of deferment. Anyway I have a 1600 mile quest next week. Thanks for all the emails and prayers. I even had overs of money, what selflessness. Bob Eta. When ever I can afford a life membership, it is mine. Best wishes, and keep us updated. We hope things keep looking up for you. |
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Posted: 1/4/2016 4:52:30 PM EDT
[Last Edit: odontia32m]
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I am leaving at 2 AM for court. Accordinding to my lawyer the Ada wants me to plead guilty to some type assault. Ain't happening. Court is Thursday at 9 AM. In Oklahoma you can not get a CCW for 3 years after an assault, and there's the nursing license issue. Lawyer is to call me back soon. He is working with her attorney and that Ada.
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Posted: 1/4/2016 5:06:52 PM EDT
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This should be pinned at the top of GD so those that need it can find it easily.
There are a lot of great people on here always willing to help out when needed. So glad i found this great community. |
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Posted: 1/4/2016 5:17:36 PM EDT
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Damn, odontia32m.
 I don't know what part of "inalienable" they don't understand.  Hang in there. Honestly; it gets better, and it leaves you stronger. |
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Posted: 1/4/2016 5:29:22 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By odontia32m:
I am leaving at 2 AM for court. Accordinding to my lawyer the Ada wants me to plead guilty to some type assault. Ain't happening. Court is Thursday at 9 AM. In Oklahoma you can not get a CCW for 3 years after an assault, and there's the nursing license issue. Lawyer is to call me back soon. He is working with her attorney and that Ada. From reading your previous post, it looks like the alleged assault was against your wife? If so, that's no firearms for life, much less CCW for 3 months. DO NOT EVER PLEAD GUILTY/NO CONTEST/WHATEVER to any assault involving any person the law categorizes as a "domestic" relationship. You will lose your gun rights. Forever. Since it's federal law, not even your state governor, nor any judge, can restore those rights. |
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Posted: 1/4/2016 7:22:54 PM EDT
[Last Edit: odontia32m]
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Update the assistant district attorney says she will do diversion all I have to do is take a Domestic violence class and it will go away in one year no no record of any charge . Pretty bad even though I was the victim,
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Posted: 1/4/2016 7:24:04 PM EDT
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Jack off and porn seems much safer now
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Posted: 1/4/2016 8:19:33 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By odontia32m:
Update the assistant district attorney says she will do diversion all I have to do is take a Domestic violence class and it will go away in one year no no record of any charge . Pretty bad even though I was the victim, From a former recruiter's standpoint with regards to entering the Army in the early 2000s, that was the same as guilty. No clue on how it will show federal with regards to firearms, etc. I know you're not out there trying to join the Army, just tossing that out there from previous experience. Good luck and keep your head up either way. |
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Posted: 1/5/2016 11:55:27 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By FDC:
From a former recruiter's standpoint with regards to entering the Army in the early 2000s, that was the same as guilty. No clue on how it will show federal with regards to firearms, etc. I know you're not out there trying to join the Army, just tossing that out there from previous experience. Good luck and keep your head up either way. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By FDC:
Originally Posted By odontia32m:
Update the assistant district attorney says she will do diversion all I have to do is take a Domestic violence class and it will go away in one year no no record of any charge . Pretty bad even though I was the victim, From a former recruiter's standpoint with regards to entering the Army in the early 2000s, that was the same as guilty. No clue on how it will show federal with regards to firearms, etc. I know you're not out there trying to join the Army, just tossing that out there from previous experience. Good luck and keep your head up either way. Ask your attorney, but generally a diversion (in most states) does not result in conviction, assuming the person goes through the prescribed period with no issues. So should be GTG as far as firearms go. That's usually the best result for a good person who get charged with a b.s. charge. They almost never offer that to actual criminals. Sounds like the ADA is giving you a break. |
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Posted: 1/6/2016 7:37:18 PM EDT
[Last Edit: odontia32m]
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By LawyerUp:
Ask your attorney, but generally a diversion (in most states) does not result in conviction, assuming the person goes through the prescribed period with no issues. So should be GTG as far as firearms go. That's usually the best result for a good person who get charged with a b.s. charge. They almost never offer that to actual criminals. Sounds like the ADA is giving you a break. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By LawyerUp:
Originally Posted By FDC:
Originally Posted By odontia32m:
Update the assistant district attorney says she will do diversion all I have to do is take a Domestic violence class and it will go away in one year no no record of any charge . Pretty bad even though I was the victim, From a former recruiter's standpoint with regards to entering the Army in the early 2000s, that was the same as guilty. No clue on how it will show federal with regards to firearms, etc. I know you're not out there trying to join the Army, just tossing that out there from previous experience. Good luck and keep your head up either way. Ask your attorney, but generally a diversion (in most states) does not result in conviction, assuming the person goes through the prescribed period with no issues. So should be GTG as far as firearms go. That's usually the best result for a good person who get charged with a b.s. charge. They almost never offer that to actual criminals. Sounds like the ADA is giving you a break. You are correct except the break. I did nothing and was jailed for 3 days. I was made to leave the jail in my bloody tshirt, boxers and bare foot . The wife knew I called the cops and staged a great scene, firearms are no problem except they took an expensive hand gun that was laying out holstered. There was never accusations of firearm play, just took the fucker. I imagine it will be a year to get it back. That means driving 1600 miles . They wanted all guns. I told them they were in safes and I would not open them.
Thanks everyone for the prayers, calls and offers. |
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Posted: 1/9/2016 6:02:56 PM EDT
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Getting better every day. I do have lows. I want to thank again all who contacted me, offered so much an prayed for me. I would also commend the veteran suicide hotline, they are great and a counselor will follow us Ricky tick. The dark thoughts are gone but I am still grieving a cheating abusive wife. Love is fucked up. No doubt she was she was seeing others or infatuated.
There is no doubt I will never marry again as my 1st wife cheated when TDY. I have thrown away every pic from 17 years that did not have my Son in them. Well my bills are 400 or less per month now . Thanks again Ed. I wanted for everyone to know that strangers on here wanted to send me money. Wow, go Arfcom.
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Posted: 1/10/2016 11:55:43 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By odontia32m:
Getting better every day. I do have lows. I want to thank again all who contacted me, offered so much an prayed for me. I would also commend the veteran suicide hotline, they are great and a counselor will follow us Ricky tick. The dark thoughts are gone but I am still grieving a cheating abusive wife. Love is fucked up. No doubt she was she was seeing others or infatuated. There is no doubt I will never marry again as my 1st wife cheated when TDY. I have thrown away every pic from 17 years that did not have my Son in them. Well my bills are 400 or less per month now . Thanks again Ed. I wanted for everyone to know that strangers on here wanted to send me money. Wow, go Arfcom.You keep going bud! Like many of us said, it only gets better as time goes by and things begin to untangle
We are a community that helps each other when someone is down and needs an ear to listen and a shoulder to lean on |
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Posted: 1/10/2016 12:06:37 PM EDT
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For the record, this thread has been effective in opening communication between members who share the same life events.
Thank you again. |
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Posted: 1/11/2016 2:12:57 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By bowbender7:
For the record, this thread has been effective in opening communication between members who share the same life events. Thank you again. I am a truly happy my shit has actually helped others to talk or not do something stupid. I was close real close. Still drinking way to much, bored but my God Father keeps me busy building ham radio stuff and I clean and maintain my Mothers's home. Thanks Arfcom I do not know how to pay it back. |
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Posted: 1/11/2016 10:38:30 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By odontia32m:
I am a truly happy my shit has actually helped others to talk or not do something stupid. I was close real close. Still drinking way to much, bored but my God Father keeps me busy building ham radio stuff and I clean and maintain my Mothers's home. Thanks Arfcom I do not know how to pay it back. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By odontia32m:
Originally Posted By bowbender7:
For the record, this thread has been effective in opening communication between members who share the same life events. Thank you again. I am a truly happy my shit has actually helped others to talk or not do something stupid. I was close real close. Still drinking way to much, bored but my God Father keeps me busy building ham radio stuff and I clean and maintain my Mothers's home. Thanks Arfcom I do not know how to pay it back. You don't owe anything to anybody here. You owe your loved ones for loving you and wanting to see pictures of the family that you are yet to have. It always grows. and makes you set horrible things aside. I like a drink too, but the rest of me feeds people that would not have it otherwise. Doing that makes any person troubled feel better. Even just a random offering. A bag of dog or cat food to the local humane society or shelter... Give $20 to a mom at Goodwill genuinely shopping for kids clothes. Buy the enlisted folk in line behind you their dinner. Giving something positive to someone deserving is always worthwhile, and they are always there. So are you. |
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Posted: 1/19/2016 11:35:30 PM EDT
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Posted: 2/6/2017 3:24:36 PM EDT
[#29]
bump
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Posted: 2/6/2017 3:43:47 PM EDT
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The days are getting longer and SPRING is close = SUNSHINE!!!!!!!!
Thank You E.A. Your good people!!
If anyone wants to talk Boat Stuff or need a Ear to listen PM for a good time
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Posted: 9/15/2018 6:57:49 PM EDT
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Just felt like bumping this one for no reason.
Dont let the storms get you down |
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Posted: 9/15/2018 7:50:41 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By wormgod:
Just felt like bumping this one for no reason. Dont let the storms get you down 
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Posted: 9/15/2018 8:02:40 PM EDT
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I was worried when this thread popped up. Till l saw it was EdSr's original from years ago.
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WI, USA
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Posted: 9/15/2018 9:09:41 PM EDT
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Meh, the wench kicked me out and took me off of the lease so now I'm back to living in my car. Guess I travel too much for work. Pretty much broke because I've made less than brilliant life decisions. But at least I'm in better physical shape than ever and also no bills and no debt. I've been through much worse. I learned to appreciate a long time ago the small things like a dry place to sleep and some food once in awhile. When things are almost unbearable the Lord shows up and lends a hand. It's kind of amazing.
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Posted: 9/15/2018 9:41:40 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By EdAvilaSr:
These are previous posts taken from the Fammyman tread, but THEY APPLY UNTIL I AM DEAD We have had attempts in the past.Thank God, both were dealt with successfully through the phone. One of them involved tc6969 on location. He (tc6969) helped with one case a few years back, so we have a reasonable model for action. If in FL, I am sure tc would get involved again to avert a tragedy like he did before 24/7/365 if someone needs to talk, or a shoulder to cry on, I WILL BE THERE! |
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Posted: 9/15/2018 10:55:31 PM EDT
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I'm a newer guy. But have a good ear, and can listen.
Retired, have time. I too have fought the demons. Divorce...depression. Went for many a midnight walks in the woods with my 9mm. Survived the good times waiting for the good times. Cursory smiles "Yea, I'm fine" but can't wait to sit in the dark. Family and friends know, yet no one says much. Pm me if anyone needs to talk...I'll share my cell. We got this. You and us. I made it, as you shall. Just reach out.  Hide in Your Shell, Roger Hodgson of Supertramp (writer and composer), with Orchestra |
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Posted: 9/16/2018 12:56:45 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By binthere:
Meh, the wench kicked me out and took me off of the lease so now I'm back to living in my car. Guess I travel too much for work. Pretty much broke because I've made less than brilliant life decisions. But at least I'm in better physical shape than ever and also no bills and no debt. I've been through much worse. I learned to appreciate a long time ago the small things like a dry place to sleep and some food once in awhile. When things are almost unbearable the Lord shows up and lends a hand. It's kind of amazing. |
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Posted: 9/16/2018 1:02:47 AM EDT
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Thank you for this. I don't need to talk right now, but seeing everyone offering help and support in a thread like this means a lot.
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Posted: 9/16/2018 1:17:47 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By davisac:
Thank you for this. I don't need to talk right now, but seeing everyone offering help and support in a thread like this means a lot. If you need to talk shoot me an IM. I'm just across the river. Wherever you are, I'm close by. |
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Posted: 9/16/2018 1:19:13 AM EDT
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good
perhaps we were overdue for something like this |
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Posted: 9/16/2018 1:28:03 AM EDT
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My good friend and fellow shooter Chris killed himself about 6 weeks ago. He shot league skeet with us and no one had any idea that anything was up.
I wasnt the guys best friend or anything but it still breaks me up. He was a family man and a nice guy. So many questions... Miss you buddy
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Posted: 9/16/2018 8:09:54 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By binthere:
Meh, the wench kicked me out and took me off of the lease so now I'm back to living in my car. Guess I travel too much for work. Pretty much broke because I've made less than brilliant life decisions. But at least I'm in better physical shape than ever and also no bills and no debt. I've been through much worse. I learned to appreciate a long time ago the small things like a dry place to sleep and some food once in awhile. When things are almost unbearable the Lord shows up and lends a hand. It's kind of amazing. 
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Posted: 9/16/2018 10:28:59 AM EDT
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I'm just throwing this out there. Maybe possible suicide threads should be locked asap?
Do you really want your website catering to depressed suicidle members. Yes, offer support, yes lock the threads asap. Mental illness sucks. |
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Posted: 9/16/2018 11:18:54 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By FordGuy:
Ed, you are a high quality human being. |
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OH, USA
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Posted: 9/16/2018 11:57:43 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By hotbiggun42:
I'm just throwing this out there. Maybe possible suicide threads should be locked asap? Do you really want your website catering to depressed suicidle members. Yes, offer support, yes lock the threads asap. Mental illness sucks. |
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Posted: 9/16/2018 12:49:09 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By hotbiggun42:
I'm just throwing this out there. Maybe possible suicide threads should be locked asap? Do you really want your website catering to depressed suicidle members. Yes, offer support, yes lock the threads asap. Mental illness sucks. |
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Posted: 9/16/2018 3:38:38 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By hotbiggun42:
I'm just throwing this out there. Maybe possible suicide threads should be locked asap? Do you really want your website catering to depressed suicidle members. Yes, offer support, yes lock the threads asap. Mental illness sucks. |
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Posted: 9/16/2018 3:53:20 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By Alembic: WTF. Severe or otherwise depression is not a mental illness. |
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Posted: 9/16/2018 4:11:35 PM EDT
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ARFCOMMERs saved me. Thanks to everyone that helped me. Your kindness and care will never be forgotten.
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Posted: 9/16/2018 6:46:55 PM EDT
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Bravo!!! ARFCOM and big Bravo to Wessono
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