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Today 12:32:32 PM EDT
[#1]
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Originally Posted By HRoark87:

She's hot and has nice tits. This is a similar list that all hot chicks with nice tits have. She's just honest about it.
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I doubt that's her. Or if it is, she's not a "tech exec."
"As God is my witness, I thought turkeys could fly." A. Carlson
Today 12:32:46 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Geralt55:



One of the benefits of knowing someone who worked in match-making, (one who herself was and is a hardcore feminist), it dispells the tiktoktard myths.

The more money he has, generally the less interested he is in her money, moreso if it comes with strings attached now because she believes she's Steve Jobs.
The tough part boils down to, of these wealthy people with good jobs, the female clients want to date the male clients, but the male clients really aren't all that interested in the women.

"The men had types, the women had lists."
As long as the men weren't having their time wasted (ex: if he likes tall blonde women, do not bring him frumpy brunettes, and vice versa), they were easy to work with.
No shit, listening to the women is what made them quit the job.
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The crux of the issue for her is location. (also your issue, funnily enough )

She lives in a city of tech dudes she isn't attracted to.

I'd bet everything I have that if there was a 5'5" Indian dude who met all her requirements perfectly; she's swiping left.
Today 12:35:35 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Lexington:
I am amazed at all of the cavemen here who think women must be married in their 20's in order to be fulfilled. She is to crank out children for a guy who ... picked a career and is giving his best years to his employer.
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Inside every GD'er is a Taliban Mullah.


"A woman said something? WHORE!"
Today 12:36:45 PM EDT
[#4]
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Originally Posted By SturmgeschutzIII:


The crux of the issue for her is location. (also your issue, funnily enough )

She lives in a city of tech dudes she isn't attracted to.

I'd bet everything I have that if there was a 5'5" Indian dude who met all her requirements perfectly; she's swiping left.
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Yeah and the dude she's hunting is shopping down at the junior college. He's looking for a 20 who he takes on a beach trip for two days is stoked as hell and fun to be around.

Not an expired boss babe who is gonna be argumentative af.

it wasn't long ago 29 yo were called old maids, it's for a reason.
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That man is a homo and a liar-TrojanMan
Hell, a Ford just breaks down on you. It doesn't fall apart AND try to kill you at the same time-Bloodsport2885
Today 12:37:13 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By HRoark87:
I'm assuming post economic means rich.
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That term was confusing until someone posted her LinkedIn profile. Probably looking for a sucker who will cough up the seed funding for her next business venture. “Can I please have 100k to start another full stack AI corgi cafe??”
Today 12:39:26 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By fxntime:


2 years is the start to weed out the bi-polars and BPD's, 4 years is a very good time frame and well worth it if you both get a very good partner for life.
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I am amazed at all of the cavemen here who think women must be married in their 20's in order to be fulfilled.
Men and women are different.

A woman’s fertility starts dropping as she turns 30 and accelerates from there.

All “muh equality” and “muh feels” in the world won’t change this basic biological fact.

Equality is a false god.

Unless you’re planning on having 6+ kids, starting to have kids in your 30s is just fine. Most folks are having 1-3 kids these days, and that can be accomplished by the age of 33 even if you start when you’re 30.


That is correct but starting at 30 husband hunting is the precursor to dating, engagement, the deed [wedding] and usually the honeymoon period unless a rich smart man decides to throw all caution to the wind and do a 3 month date and marry scenario, and rich smart men don't tend to do that. [unless you are Elon Musk ]



I mean… worked for me.


Took 4 years though.


2 years is the start to weed out the bi-polars and BPD's, 4 years is a very good time frame and well worth it if you both get a very good partner for life.

That also puts her squarely in mid-30s for a first pregnancy. Definitely limiting the option.
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Today 12:40:49 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By merick:
I have no idea what "healing path" means and I don't even know who to ask.
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A popular theory, especially among liberals, is that everyone is broken and needs to seek professional help to become healthy. It's the mental health version of Original Sin and white privilege.
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Today 12:44:20 PM EDT
[#8]
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Originally Posted By Pallas:
I'm over 42.

I'm leery of anyone who is 29 and an executive, unless they are an executive assistant. I see all sorts of motherfuckers listing CEO and Owner, they have no employees lol. I suppose if you had an OF page, you could be a tech executive.

I dunno wtf "post economic", yet still hard working means. Like, hit it big, is wealthy, doesn't work for anyone, but has projects?
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She wants someone who is rich, retired early, and will now focus all his energy on her.
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Today 12:45:17 PM EDT
[#9]
WTF does  "must be on the healing path" mean?  Why would a normal guy with no issues be committed to seeing a therapist?

I'm married, too old, and not a tech guy so I wouldn't qualify anyway.

I would also be a hard no as the fact she is embracing the "Look at me!" culture is a red flag in my book.
Today 12:52:26 PM EDT
[#10]
Originally Posted By Fulcrum-5:


Inside every GD'er is a Taliban Mullah.


"A woman said something? WHORE!"
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Purposely pretending to be dumb enough to think there's no middle ground between the taliban and a feminist utopia doesn't make you sound as smart as you think.

Originally Posted By Chromekilla:

Yeah and the dude she's hunting is shopping down at the junior college. He's looking for a 20 who he takes on a beach trip for two days is stoked as hell and fun to be around.

Not an expired boss babe who is gonna be argumentative af.

it wasn't long ago 29 yo were called old maids, it's for a reason.
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If he's smart he would be.

Though to be fair, she undoubtedly will find some sucker who meets 70% of her requirements(the money one...) and is awed by her looks and trap him.
Today 1:00:33 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By fxntime:


But...........is she a ''traditional'' woman?
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Yeah I took it as well off enough not to be only chasing money, but still well off.


I do think it's hypocritical the push is for "traditional values" with gender roles with the man being the protector/provider and then jump down their throats when they suggest the guy be well off to provide for them.


Exactly.

Sounds like she wants what most would consider to be a traditional man... all of the sudden GD has a problem with that.


But...........is she a ''traditional'' woman?
Unlikely, but that doesn't make her list all that unreasonable.

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Today 1:01:19 PM EDT
[Last Edit: WorkDroid][Edited] [#12]
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Originally Posted By 56xdx_Z:
WTF does “on the healing path (history of serious
commitment ex therapists, books, retreats)” even mean?
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Its been a big thing with women lately. If a guy turns them down for their behavior, or breaks up with them because they're neurotic, etc.... He's the one that needs to "heal" (fix himself) because he's the problem, not them.

Its the modern version of "If you can't handle me at my worst, then you don't deserve me at my best" bullshit.
Today 1:02:21 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By SturmgeschutzIII:


I meet most of those requirements, including post economic.

I would not see her as a serious long term dating prospect.
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I have kids, so I'm out- also 2 years too old.

She's not for me either, I don't want or need an executive.

Not really my point though.
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Today 1:11:14 PM EDT
[#14]
I mean her tits aren’t *that* big.
Today 1:15:09 PM EDT
[#15]
The people I know who fit that bill, are not interested in women like her.
Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.
Today 1:16:06 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By AZshooter71:
I mean her tits aren’t *that* big.
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Assuming that’s really her, she’s a decent looking broad. She reminds me of the actress that rides the .25 mechanical horse in the Target meme that everyone posts.

IDK about all of her demands from the OP though.
Today 1:23:03 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By HRoark87:
I'm assuming post economic means rich.
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What I was guessing.  And did you notice that right under that it says..... generous?

el oh el ... Rich and "generous."  

Also confusing, she WANTS a guy who's been going through therapy most of his life?  Why do you want a guy with baggage who's on a "healing path" when you could have a normal healthy well-adjusted man?

Today 1:25:27 PM EDT
[#18]
Everything on that list is part of being a healthy, hardworking male, but you have to be in the field that she understands, and that's not a problem. The problem, is that there is no red blooded American male that can, or should meet this requirement,

On the healing path, history of serious commitment ex specialists, books, and retreats.

Guys don't do that shit. We go somewhere and hang out with friends, or go hunting,  fishing or working on our projects. We do do therapy, that's our therapy. We don't read books about it, and we don't go to freaking gay ass retreats. You know who does that? Damn pansies, sissies,, and gays. Men don't do that.

So, no, she will never find a man.
Today 1:25:42 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By PeoplesRepublicOfIL:
I think it’s hilarious how betas defend women for living like men but women aren’t subject to the draft.

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It's hilarious how your response to "eh, the chick is kinda picky, but OK, let her do her...." is "Does that bitch have to fight in a war?  Then why is she picky about her men????".
Today 1:34:08 PM EDT
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If I met those requirements, she would not meet MY requirements, because I could afford to be unreasonably selective.

No hunky, broken-but-healing, ridiculously attractive, ridiculously wealthy, never-before-engaged man past the years where one would settle down wants a boss babe to be an executive with him...or to immediately quit her job and start popping out kids at his expense.

Those guys either have wives that were supporting them when they were starting out, they're banging Instathots that look good on the outside and feel good on the inside, or they're assholes who dumped their wives for those Instathots. I mean, statistically.

And of course, not a word about what she brings to the table for the guy other than the suggestion that she'd be a good lay...which the guy she wants, if he's single, is already getting from women way better looking than her.

Edit : Where is @buck19delta, I feel like he'd have some insights here.
Today 1:39:45 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By maxima2:
What's with the Everest size bump on that forehead and one eye is definitely brown - the same exact color of shit.

She might be that full of it?

She's flawed = definitely better think about lowering those standards a bit.

Is she going bald too?




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Spider eyes and a Miley Cyrus mouth.

Also wondering how the guy is "post economic" but WORKS in tech.

hur dur, he doesn't work, but he works. hur dur.
Today 1:50:23 PM EDT
[#22]
She looks like Aubrey Plaza with most of the fun sucked out.
God sometimes subcontracts -- A funny guy
Today 1:54:16 PM EDT
[#23]
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Originally Posted By Geralt55:


It effectively does

Big city Rich at 35, boy that grows on trees

For the people who haven't dated in 20years and don't date young women don't know what she's actually saying, because 98 times out of 100 a woman like this means *in addition to* being ultra handsome AND 6'2" he needs to make a ton of money without working very hard for it (80 hours a week) AND have an impressive job title.
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This is something that cracks me up a lot.
They want the neurosurgeon, fighter pilot, astronaut, SEAL team commander, CEO, etc. but don’t understand those guys didn’t get where they are without nor live a life of 4K hour weeks with no nights, weekends, or holidays.
Today 2:00:08 PM EDT
[#24]
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Originally Posted By ElSupremo:
She's definitely one that needs the five position switch implanted in the small of her back.

1. FUCK
2. SUCK
3. COOK
4. CLEAN
5. OFF

Upon completion of any of the first 4 selections the switch automatically reverts to OFF.

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Today 2:01:24 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Fulcrum-5:


Inside every GD'er is a Taliban Mullah.


"A woman said something? WHORE!"
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Originally Posted By Fulcrum-5:
Originally Posted By Lexington:
I am amazed at all of the cavemen here who think women must be married in their 20's in order to be fulfilled. She is to crank out children for a guy who ... picked a career and is giving his best years to his employer.


Inside every GD'er is a Taliban Mullah.


"A woman said something? WHORE!"


Yeah that’s exactly what is happening here.  Fantastic take.
It is pitch black. You are likely to be eaten by a grue.
Today 2:14:52 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Coati:


That's the paradox of successful women.  Their success is of little use to a successful man, and usually of negative value to men.  An unsuccessful woman that focuses on things money can't buy will beat them to the successful man almost every time.
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Originally Posted By Geralt55:
Originally Posted By SturmgeschutzIII:
I meet most of those requirements, including post economic.

I would not see her as a serious long term dating prospect.



One of the benefits of knowing someone who worked in match-making, (one who herself was and is a hardcore feminist), it dispells the tiktoktard myths.

The more money he has, generally the less interested he is in her money, moreso if it comes with strings attached now because she believes she's Steve Jobs.
The tough part boils down to, of these wealthy people with good jobs, the female clients want to date the male clients, but the male clients really aren't all that interested in the women.

"The men had types, the women had lists."
As long as the men weren't having their time wasted (ex: if he likes tall blonde women, do not bring him frumpy brunettes, and vice versa), they were easy to work with.
No shit, listening to the women is what made them quit the job.


That's the paradox of successful women.  Their success is of little use to a successful man, and usually of negative value to men.  An unsuccessful woman that focuses on things money can't buy will beat them to the successful man almost every time.


Her (financial/career) success is the kind of thing a man likes about his girl AFTER he's gotten to know her.

In reality, when DATING, in terms of pre-selection: If you had a high IQ nurse and female Doctor, where both women are equal in terms of intelligence, both are the same level of "fun to talk to", both are 6/10s looks wise, and have the same hobbies - to men they're basically equals in terms of dating.
Women get pissy about that, but the lawyer and paralegal are on equal footing.

The matchmakers found that if a man's wealthy enough that his wife genuinely doesn't have to work, and she's blasting him on date one with: "I'M NOT GIVING UP MY CAREER YOU FUCKING BIGOT I'M JEFF BEZOS, DON'T YOU UNDERSTAND WHO I AM - FUCK THAT, RAISING KIDS AND RUNNING YOUR HOUSEHOLD?
I'M NOT SUSIE HOMEMAKER THAT'S FUCKING BENEATH ME YOU BIGOT"

Someone other woman has no problem driving his little ones to soccer in a Lexus.
Today 2:19:49 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By RolandofGilead:
I have kids, so I'm out- also 2 years too old.

She's not for me either, I don't want or need an executive.

Not really my point though.
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I get what you're saying. Most of her list isn't crazy. She certainly should be looking for someone kind and healthy. Considering her looks, she can easily get an attractive and upper middle class man too.  

But some of her list is crazy. And this isn't the whole list. These things are in addition to being tall, attractive, and probably white.

This puts the odds of her finding this person squarely at 0%.

Today 2:25:09 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By SturmgeschutzIII:


The crux of the issue for her is location. (also your issue, funnily enough )

She lives in a city of tech dudes she isn't attracted to.

I'd bet everything I have that if there was a 5'5" Indian dude who met all her requirements perfectly; she's swiping left.
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Originally Posted By SturmgeschutzIII:
Originally Posted By Geralt55:



One of the benefits of knowing someone who worked in match-making, (one who herself was and is a hardcore feminist), it dispells the tiktoktard myths.

The more money he has, generally the less interested he is in her money, moreso if it comes with strings attached now because she believes she's Steve Jobs.
The tough part boils down to, of these wealthy people with good jobs, the female clients want to date the male clients, but the male clients really aren't all that interested in the women.

"The men had types, the women had lists."
As long as the men weren't having their time wasted (ex: if he likes tall blonde women, do not bring him frumpy brunettes, and vice versa), they were easy to work with.
No shit, listening to the women is what made them quit the job.


The crux of the issue for her is location. (also your issue, funnily enough )

She lives in a city of tech dudes she isn't attracted to.

I'd bet everything I have that if there was a 5'5" Indian dude who met all her requirements perfectly; she's swiping left.


Yes.

One of her problems is: Almost every woman is chasing the man she wants too, from the girl next door to the onlyfans girl, she's one of many, and that pack includes ones who are better at hiding being a gold digger.
Today 2:26:13 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Chromekilla:

Yeah and the dude she's hunting is shopping down at the junior college. He's looking for a 20 who he takes on a beach trip for two days is stoked as hell and fun to be around.

Not an expired boss babe who is gonna be argumentative af.

it wasn't long ago 29 yo were called old maids, it's for a reason.
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Originally Posted By Chromekilla:
Originally Posted By SturmgeschutzIII:


The crux of the issue for her is location. (also your issue, funnily enough )

She lives in a city of tech dudes she isn't attracted to.

I'd bet everything I have that if there was a 5'5" Indian dude who met all her requirements perfectly; she's swiping left.

Yeah and the dude she's hunting is shopping down at the junior college. He's looking for a 20 who he takes on a beach trip for two days is stoked as hell and fun to be around.

Not an expired boss babe who is gonna be argumentative af.

it wasn't long ago 29 yo were called old maids, it's for a reason.


In reality: The 49 year old women are chasing that dude too
From 20 to 49+, every one of those women can make a case in their mind for why that guy should have HER as the passenger princess in his Lambo
Today 2:27:08 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By SturmgeschutzIII:


Purposely pretending to be dumb enough to think there's no middle ground between the taliban and a feminist utopia doesn't make you sound as smart as you think.



If he's smart he would be.

Though to be fair, she undoubtedly will find some sucker who meets 70% of her requirements(the money one...) and is awed by her looks and trap him.
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Originally Posted By SturmgeschutzIII:
Originally Posted By Fulcrum-5:


Inside every GD'er is a Taliban Mullah.


"A woman said something? WHORE!"


Purposely pretending to be dumb enough to think there's no middle ground between the taliban and a feminist utopia doesn't make you sound as smart as you think.

Originally Posted By Chromekilla:

Yeah and the dude she's hunting is shopping down at the junior college. He's looking for a 20 who he takes on a beach trip for two days is stoked as hell and fun to be around.

Not an expired boss babe who is gonna be argumentative af.

it wasn't long ago 29 yo were called old maids, it's for a reason.


If he's smart he would be.

Though to be fair, she undoubtedly will find some sucker who meets 70% of her requirements(the money one...) and is awed by her looks and trap him.


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Today 2:36:08 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Geralt55:


Yes.

One of her problems is: Almost every woman is chasing the man she wants too, from the girl next door to the onlyfans girl, she's one of many, and that pack includes ones who are better at hiding being a gold digger.
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I will say that at least this girl has a chance at getting this mythical dude.

It's the 5s and 6s she's competing with who are truly insane.

Location will be an issue though. She's looking for a masculine man in an unmasculine place.

I know the struggle, as I looked for a fit girl in a fat place.



I think about this tweet a lot
Today 2:48:00 PM EDT
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Where's the list of what SHE has to offer?

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Apparently it is a vagina in a decent looking package.


That vagina package comes off as narcissistic and high maintenance.

One could probably find a decent looking vagina package with less narcissism and less maintenance, in theory.
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Today 2:48:02 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By SturmgeschutzIII:


I will say that at least this girl has a chance at getting this mythical dude.

It's the 5s and 6s she's competing with who are truly insane.

Location will be an issue though. She's looking for a masculine man in an unmasculine place.

I know the struggle, as I looked for a fit girl in a fat place.



I think about this tweet a lot
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I wish Kevin Samuels was still around.

You are a five at best
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That man is a homo and a liar-TrojanMan
Hell, a Ford just breaks down on you. It doesn't fall apart AND try to kill you at the same time-Bloodsport2885
Today 2:49:43 PM EDT
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Apparently it is a vagina in a decent looking package.


That vagina package comes off as narcissistic and high maintenance.

One could probably find a decent looking vagina package with less narcissism and less maintenance, in theory.
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Guaranteed.  Getting on lease or turo is far and away different compared to buying on a full term  high interest note.
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That man is a homo and a liar-TrojanMan
Hell, a Ford just breaks down on you. It doesn't fall apart AND try to kill you at the same time-Bloodsport2885
Today 2:51:05 PM EDT
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Unless you’re planning on having 6+ kids, starting to have kids in your 30s is just fine. Most folks are having 1-3 kids these days, and that can be accomplished by the age of 33 even if you start when you’re 30.
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When we got married my wife was 21.
We waited 13 years to have a kid.
The next one came along 13 months later, her idea.
Strive to carry the handgun you would want anywhere, everywhere; forget that good area bullcrap.
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Today 2:51:46 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Geralt55:


Her (financial/career) success is the kind of thing a man likes about his girl AFTER he's gotten to know her.

In reality, when DATING, in terms of pre-selection: If you had a high IQ nurse and female Doctor, where both women are equal in terms of intelligence, both are the same level of "fun to talk to", both are 6/10s looks wise, and have the same hobbies - to men they're basically equals in terms of dating.
Women get pissy about that, but the lawyer and paralegal are on equal footing.

The matchmakers found that if a man's wealthy enough that his wife genuinely doesn't have to work, and she's blasting him on date one with: "I'M NOT GIVING UP MY CAREER YOU FUCKING BIGOT I'M JEFF BEZOS, DON'T YOU UNDERSTAND WHO I AM - FUCK THAT, RAISING KIDS AND RUNNING YOUR HOUSEHOLD?
I'M NOT SUSIE HOMEMAKER THAT'S FUCKING BENEATH ME YOU BIGOT"

Someone other woman has no problem driving his little ones to soccer in a Lexus.
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This is true.
Today 3:02:05 PM EDT
[#37]
Attention seeking narcissist. She is relishing all the attention according to her.
Today 3:07:04 PM EDT
[#38]
Cats are going to eat that lady when she dies alone in the future.
Today 3:07:37 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By SturmgeschutzIII:


I get what you're saying. Most of her list isn't crazy. She certainly should be looking for someone kind and healthy. Considering her looks, she can easily get an attractive and upper middle class man too.  

But some of her list is crazy. And this isn't the whole list. These things are in addition to being tall, attractive, and probably white.

This puts the odds of her finding this person squarely at 0%.

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I'm sure there are things that aren't being mentioned.
I'd need to clarification on a couple things to decide if the list is crazy or not. For now, I don't think it's super unreasonable.

Her biggest wakeup call IMO is going to come when she realizes that a lot of men generally either don't give a shit, or actively dislike dating women executive types.
Your boos mean nothing, I've seen what makes you cheer
Today 3:11:40 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Geralt55:


Her (financial/career) success is the kind of thing a man likes about his girl AFTER he's gotten to know her.

In reality, when DATING, in terms of pre-selection: If you had a high IQ nurse and female Doctor, where both women are equal in terms of intelligence, both are the same level of "fun to talk to", both are 6/10s looks wise, and have the same hobbies - to men they're basically equals in terms of dating.
Women get pissy about that, but the lawyer and paralegal are on equal footing.

The matchmakers found that if a man's wealthy enough that his wife genuinely doesn't have to work, and she's blasting him on date one with: "I'M NOT GIVING UP MY CAREER YOU FUCKING BIGOT I'M JEFF BEZOS, DON'T YOU UNDERSTAND WHO I AM - FUCK THAT, RAISING KIDS AND RUNNING YOUR HOUSEHOLD?
I'M NOT SUSIE HOMEMAKER THAT'S FUCKING BENEATH ME YOU BIGOT"

Someone other woman has no problem driving his little ones to soccer in a Lexus.
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Originally Posted By SturmgeschutzIII:
I meet most of those requirements, including post economic.

I would not see her as a serious long term dating prospect.



One of the benefits of knowing someone who worked in match-making, (one who herself was and is a hardcore feminist), it dispells the tiktoktard myths.

The more money he has, generally the less interested he is in her money, moreso if it comes with strings attached now because she believes she's Steve Jobs.
The tough part boils down to, of these wealthy people with good jobs, the female clients want to date the male clients, but the male clients really aren't all that interested in the women.

"The men had types, the women had lists."
As long as the men weren't having their time wasted (ex: if he likes tall blonde women, do not bring him frumpy brunettes, and vice versa), they were easy to work with.
No shit, listening to the women is what made them quit the job.


That's the paradox of successful women.  Their success is of little use to a successful man, and usually of negative value to men.  An unsuccessful woman that focuses on things money can't buy will beat them to the successful man almost every time.


Her (financial/career) success is the kind of thing a man likes about his girl AFTER he's gotten to know her.

In reality, when DATING, in terms of pre-selection: If you had a high IQ nurse and female Doctor, where both women are equal in terms of intelligence, both are the same level of "fun to talk to", both are 6/10s looks wise, and have the same hobbies - to men they're basically equals in terms of dating.
Women get pissy about that, but the lawyer and paralegal are on equal footing.

The matchmakers found that if a man's wealthy enough that his wife genuinely doesn't have to work, and she's blasting him on date one with: "I'M NOT GIVING UP MY CAREER YOU FUCKING BIGOT I'M JEFF BEZOS, DON'T YOU UNDERSTAND WHO I AM - FUCK THAT, RAISING KIDS AND RUNNING YOUR HOUSEHOLD?
I'M NOT SUSIE HOMEMAKER THAT'S FUCKING BENEATH ME YOU BIGOT"

Someone other woman has no problem driving his little ones to soccer in a Lexus.



Well, in my experience.

A nurse and a Doctor are completely leagues apart.  There are both practical and realistic reasons for it. Not saying nurses are dumber or anything like that.  But there’s a pretty big gap between a nurse and a doctor.  If you can survive getting through residency and a possible fellowship.  It’s a lot different than nursing school. And the person, will be different.

But no, nurses and doctors are not anywhere near the same in my eyes. As someone that is a month away from marrying a doctor.

And I’m pretty sure most female MD’s will also attract an equivalent male.  Like my fiancé’s former co-fellow is marrying a retired MLB player, who is an MLB coach now. I could go down the list of all the MD’s I know and who they’re married to.  But they’re generally not going to engage with a lazy person.
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Today 3:37:10 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By imagetcha:

Spider eyes and a Miley Cyrus mouth.

Also wondering how the guy is "post economic" but WORKS in tech.

hur dur, he doesn't work, but he works. hur dur.
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Doesn't need to work for a living, but chooses to for the higher tiers of the Maslow pyramid.
Today 3:37:42 PM EDT
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She's hot and has nice tits. This is a similar list that all hot chicks with nice tits have. She's just honest about it.
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It’s kinda strange because it seems like female tribal knowledge is gone.

Doesn’t she have a mom or grandma to explain that IF she wants all that she has to put out what a man like that would want? He doesn’t give a shit about her income or being an “exec” at some gay start up.


She looks good but is already getting older for a rich younger man. She needs to convey femininity and warmth, not bitchy high maintenance.
Today 3:39:48 PM EDT
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she prolly makes you ask for sex or work for it.

i feel bad for any man that ends up w women like this.

they think they are "high class" when in reality they are fucking cunts, plain and simple.  

id rather have an Alaska 5 than date that thing.
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Today 3:43:49 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By BeaterHonda:
I'm so poor I was unfamiliar with the term "post economic"
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It means you have plenty of free money to spend on her.
Today 3:46:46 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Redman556:
The problem, is that there is no red blooded American male that can, or should meet this requirement,

On the healing path, history of serious commitment ex specialists, books, and retreats.

Guys don't do that shit. We go somewhere and hang out with friends, or go hunting,  fishing or working on our projects. We do do therapy, that's our therapy. We don't read books about it, and we don't go to freaking gay ass retreats. You know who does that? Damn pansies, sissies,, and gays. Men don't do that.

So, no, she will never find a man.
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The problem, is that there is no red blooded American male that can, or should meet this requirement,

On the healing path, history of serious commitment ex specialists, books, and retreats.

Guys don't do that shit. We go somewhere and hang out with friends, or go hunting,  fishing or working on our projects. We do do therapy, that's our therapy. We don't read books about it, and we don't go to freaking gay ass retreats. You know who does that? Damn pansies, sissies,, and gays. Men don't do that.

So, no, she will never find a man.

Maybe they should…


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Today 3:50:12 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By xenophon21:
I mean, ive seen way way worse.  Thats a pretty tame list.
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This.

Window has really shifted if she's is catching flak for that one.

Ladies probably won't be able to stop the decline until the lists reach the "breathing" level.
Today 4:16:04 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Foxtrot08:

Well, in my experience.

A nurse and a Doctor are completely leagues apart.
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Originally Posted By Foxtrot08:

Well, in my experience.

A nurse and a Doctor are completely leagues apart.

Having friends/exes who are both, in some ways sure - but in terms of the mating game, Socio Economic Status for women has like a ~.04 correlation with her mating success- statistically insignificant.

(Screencap of a slide from a Jordan Peterson lecture, the study in question's findings)
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I'm not going to give endless citations on this one, the slide will suffice, the more we dig the more we'll find it looks like this ^ and not what people wish it was.



There are both practical and realistic reasons for it. Not saying nurses are dumber or anything like that.

One of my best friends who I've known since we were 1st graders is a psychiatrist and has some hilarious anecdotes about the nurses
They run the gamut on intellect, IMHO

 But there’s a pretty big gap between a nurse and a doctor.  If you can survive getting through residency and a possible fellowship.  It’s a lot different than nursing school. And the person, will be different.


Also true, note the post I had in no way said the routes were equivalent - but in terms of pre-selection when we don't know the people in a blind sample population, a woman's W2 doesn't really change her mating outcomes in a real way, because it's not a "Draw" to men, it's basically a bonus AFTER they already like her.

Women try to marry up and across dominance hierarchies, men really aren't wired that way.

But no, nurses and doctors are not anywhere near the same in my eyes. As someone that is a month away from marrying a doctor.


Ordinarily when the female SES =/= female dating success facts come out, men with career-successful wives/girlfriends start to throw venom on behalf of those loved ones, I appreciate the civility in the response thusfar, just stopping here to say that.


And I’m pretty sure most female MD’s will also attract an equivalent male.


This one's a neat one ^ yes, in terms of assortative mating people on the right side of the IQ bell curve likely would find and mate eachother (being in similar social environments etc).
But there's that little thing people call "The tall woman problem", if she's 5'10" and "will only date" guys taller than her, that's great.
But they're low supply, and all the women shorter than her are ALSO running after those men.

As I've mentioned another good friend of mine WAS a match-maker, one of the saddest things match-makers see very specifically is usually the case of the female doctors.
Experienced matchmakers see it happen over and over, it's a known secret in their industry.
For some of them they have to be taught the difference(s) between a date and a job interview
How to act on a date, dress, all of that.



 Like my fiancé’s former co-fellow is marrying a retired MLB player, who is an MLB coach now.


Professional athletes aren't trying to exclusively date 35 year old doctors and lawyers, at all, come on now.


I could go down the list of all the MD’s I know and who they’re married to.  


Wonderful, God bless em and good for them.

Right, and a lot of professional women with great titles and very nice Linkedin pages overshot the landing zone on their fertility, and are now childless and unmarried at 40+ on anti-depressants, because they looked down their nose at the men who are actually interested the,m because they confused their W2 with their "dating level".
It's a major problem in the west and it's actually effecting the birth rates at this point, pretending it's a non-issue for social expedience reasons will continue the slide.

But they’re generally not going to engage with a lazy person.


This is an unserious line that has the slight odor of "cope", so I'm just going to call it what it is

Boiling it down: You don't see a lot of hopeless single handsome millionaires for the same reason you don't see a lot of homeless supermodels.
The genders are different, even if people wish they weren't.
Today 4:16:15 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By RolandofGilead:
I'm sure there are things that aren't being mentioned.
I'd need to clarification on a couple things to decide if the list is crazy or not. For now, I don't think it's super unreasonable.

Her biggest wakeup call IMO is going to come when she realizes that a lot of men generally either don't give a shit, or actively dislike dating women executive types.
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Definitely.

I've talked to my GF(teacher) about this. She finds it perplexing that I do not care what her profession is.

Women are trying to become what THEY find attractive. This girl is trying to be a rich "exec" and nobody cares. lol
Today 4:24:37 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Geralt55:

Having friends/exes who are both, in some ways sure - but in terms of the mating game, Socio Economic Status for women has like a ~.04 correlation with her mating success- statistically insignificant.

(Screencap of a slide from a Jordan Peterson lecture, the study in question's findings)
https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/144599/TheyTookOurJobs_png-3830707.JPG

I'm not going to give endless citations on this one, the slide will suffice, the more we dig the more we'll find it looks like this ^ and not what people wish it was.



One of my best friends who I've known since we were 1st graders is a psychiatrist and has some hilarious anecdotes about the nurses
They run the gamut on intellect, IMHO



Also true, note the post I had in no way said the routes were equivalent - but in terms of pre-selection when we don't know the people in a blind sample population, a woman's W2 doesn't really change her mating outcomes in a real way, because it's not a "Draw" to men, it's basically a bonus AFTER they already like her.

Women try to marry up and across dominance hierarchies, men really aren't wired that way.



Ordinarily when the female SES =/= female dating success facts come out, men with career-successful wives/girlfriends start to throw venom on behalf of those loved ones, I appreciate the civility in the response thusfar, just stopping here to say that.



This one's a neat one ^ yes, in terms of assortative mating people on the right side of the IQ bell curve likely would find and mate eachother (being in similar social environments etc).
But there's that little thing people call "The tall woman problem", if she's 5'10" and "will only date" guys taller than her, that's great.
But they're low supply, and all the women shorter than her are ALSO running after those men.

As I've mentioned another good friend of mine WAS a match-maker, one of the saddest things match-makers see very specifically is usually the case of the female doctors.
Experienced matchmakers see it happen over and over, it's a known secret in their industry.
For some of them they have to be taught the difference(s) between a date and a job interview
How to act on a date, dress, all of that.




Professional athletes aren't trying to exclusively date 35 year old doctors and lawyers, at all, come on now.



Wonderful, God bless em and good for them.

Right, and a lot of professional women with great titles and very nice Linkedin pages overshot the landing zone on their fertility, and are now childless and unmarried at 40+ on anti-depressants, because they looked down their nose at the men who are actually interested the,m because they confused their W2 with their "dating level".
It's a major problem in the west and it's actually effecting the birth rates at this point, pretending it's a non-issue for social expedience reasons will continue the slide.



This is an unserious line that has the slight odor of "cope", so I'm just going to call it what it is

Boiling it down: You don't see a lot of hopeless single handsome millionaires for the same reason you don't see a lot of homeless supermodels.
The genders are different, even if people wish they weren't.
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Originally Posted By Geralt55:
Originally Posted By Foxtrot08:

Well, in my experience.

A nurse and a Doctor are completely leagues apart.

Having friends/exes who are both, in some ways sure - but in terms of the mating game, Socio Economic Status for women has like a ~.04 correlation with her mating success- statistically insignificant.

(Screencap of a slide from a Jordan Peterson lecture, the study in question's findings)
https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/144599/TheyTookOurJobs_png-3830707.JPG

I'm not going to give endless citations on this one, the slide will suffice, the more we dig the more we'll find it looks like this ^ and not what people wish it was.



There are both practical and realistic reasons for it. Not saying nurses are dumber or anything like that.

One of my best friends who I've known since we were 1st graders is a psychiatrist and has some hilarious anecdotes about the nurses
They run the gamut on intellect, IMHO

 But there’s a pretty big gap between a nurse and a doctor.  If you can survive getting through residency and a possible fellowship.  It’s a lot different than nursing school. And the person, will be different.


Also true, note the post I had in no way said the routes were equivalent - but in terms of pre-selection when we don't know the people in a blind sample population, a woman's W2 doesn't really change her mating outcomes in a real way, because it's not a "Draw" to men, it's basically a bonus AFTER they already like her.

Women try to marry up and across dominance hierarchies, men really aren't wired that way.

But no, nurses and doctors are not anywhere near the same in my eyes. As someone that is a month away from marrying a doctor.


Ordinarily when the female SES =/= female dating success facts come out, men with career-successful wives/girlfriends start to throw venom on behalf of those loved ones, I appreciate the civility in the response thusfar, just stopping here to say that.


And I’m pretty sure most female MD’s will also attract an equivalent male.


This one's a neat one ^ yes, in terms of assortative mating people on the right side of the IQ bell curve likely would find and mate eachother (being in similar social environments etc).
But there's that little thing people call "The tall woman problem", if she's 5'10" and "will only date" guys taller than her, that's great.
But they're low supply, and all the women shorter than her are ALSO running after those men.

As I've mentioned another good friend of mine WAS a match-maker, one of the saddest things match-makers see very specifically is usually the case of the female doctors.
Experienced matchmakers see it happen over and over, it's a known secret in their industry.
For some of them they have to be taught the difference(s) between a date and a job interview
How to act on a date, dress, all of that.



 Like my fiancé’s former co-fellow is marrying a retired MLB player, who is an MLB coach now.


Professional athletes aren't trying to exclusively date 35 year old doctors and lawyers, at all, come on now.


I could go down the list of all the MD’s I know and who they’re married to.  


Wonderful, God bless em and good for them.

Right, and a lot of professional women with great titles and very nice Linkedin pages overshot the landing zone on their fertility, and are now childless and unmarried at 40+ on anti-depressants, because they looked down their nose at the men who are actually interested the,m because they confused their W2 with their "dating level".
It's a major problem in the west and it's actually effecting the birth rates at this point, pretending it's a non-issue for social expedience reasons will continue the slide.

But they’re generally not going to engage with a lazy person.


This is an unserious line that has the slight odor of "cope", so I'm just going to call it what it is

Boiling it down: You don't see a lot of hopeless single handsome millionaires for the same reason you don't see a lot of homeless supermodels.
The genders are different, even if people wish they weren't.



Cope?  For what? What am I coping for?

Unserious? For what? Telling my experiences?

You’re making an awful lot of assumptions real quick. Which makes your post hilarious and also to use your phrase, “unserious.”
Direction, not intention, determines destination.

Integrity is the essence of everything successful.
Today 4:25:00 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By SturmgeschutzIII:

Definitely.

I've talked to my GF(teacher) about this. She finds it perplexing that I do not care what her profession is.

Women are trying to become what THEY find attractive. This girl is trying to be a rich "exec" and nobody cares. lol
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I think most of us would prefer a sweet and personable professional dog walker over any type of "high powered" woman. Nothing against them, I just don't need it.
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