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I choked a guy wearing a polo shirt one time, or at least attempted to until the shirt ripped and I lost that advantage ....
This illustrates one of my main points. People will break before a Gi does, and regular clothing will likely tear if you are using it as you would a Gi.
- this is the basis of my "no-Gi" argument:
The "no-Gi" training I do is simply a modification of the "with-Gi" training I do. You know the drill... "Get BOTH!"
Instead of using the Gi as a handle, change things to grip the underlying structure instead of the clothing - the arm instead of the sleeve; the neck instead of the collar, etc. It may be significant that I don't train for competition. In my late 40's that is not much of an option. I train for fun, fitness, and for self defense.
Also, going to the ground in a
self-defense situation will almost always be a
very bad idea - the Krav Maga folks stress this and I agree.
Put 'em down and get away. If that can't work quickly enough:
Put 'em down & change their focus (hurt them), and get away. If
that can't work quickly enough:
Put 'em down and make it so they won't be getting up anytime soon.
Chokes are great for submissions, which is great for competition, training, or handling a drunk & belligerent Uncle Charley (or anyone else you don't really want to hurt). Done correctly there is no lasting harm.
Chokes are not on my list of responses in an actual self-defense situation.