We moved here about 2 1/2 years ago from Ogden, Utah. Before that I had lived in the Wichita area for about 14 years. In my job I travel all over the western 2/3 of the DFW metroplex. My wife also travels to many parts of the metromess, she's in the medical field.
Anyway ... I would not care to live on the Dallas side of town.
My wife's son has lived here for about 8-9 years. He gave us some good advice on house hunting. "Stay outside the loop", meaning the 820 loop around Ft Worth. That means north, west or south of Ft Worth since Dallas is to the east.
It is a long way to Dallas from Ft Worth, about 30 miles from downtown to downtown. It takes a long time to get from one side to the other of the metroplex.
If you can tell me where you'll be working, I can give some more useful info about traffic in that area, etc.
We bought a house in Azle, which is on the west side of Eagle Mountain lake. Because of the lake, the roads between Azle and Ft Worth are limited. It gets frustrating, but neither of us knows of a place we'd rather live.
A couple of other nice areas around Ft Worth are north, the Keller, Haslet, Watauga area. To get to Ft Worth from this area you need to drive I-35W, which clogs up often. Also, Hwy 820 from 35W to Hwy 183, and 183 from there to Dallas ... the whole thing is a mess. It's way under capacity for the amount of traffic. IMO it's the worst stretch of road on the west side of the metroplex.
Another nice area, where several of my co-workers live, is south of Ft Worth in the Crowley/Burleson area. I don't know a lot about that area, except that several folks I work with, who have lived in DFW for several years have chosen to live there.
If I had it to do over again, I would look hard at the Weatherford area.
AS far as housing costs, I think they are comparable to the KC area. The nicer burbs are going to bring premium prices. There is a ton of building going on around here. We bought a 4 bedroom house, 2100 sq/ft (the 4th BR is actually an office) built in 2002 with a 2 car attached garage and a 25x20 garage in the back yard. It was just over $150K. These are hard to find and we looked for weeks before we found this one. Lots here run very small, and most don't have room for a detached garage or a driveway around the side of the house. Ours did not have a driveway when we bought it, but we had one poured. The 3 car garages that were common in Wichita are rare here. And there are no basements here.
What does your wife do? Jobs seem to be very easy to come by, compared to Utah or Kansas.
I belong to the Parker County Sportsman's Club. It's near Poolville and has ranges out to 250 yards, and it's cheap. There are a lot of ranges around here, and quite a few gun shops. There is a Cabela's north of Fort Worth and a Bass Pro near DFW airport, plus a new BPS on the east side of Dallas.
There is a lot to do around here. I recently got an offer to relocate, and after evaluating everything decided to turn it down and stay here.
Email me if there is anything you don't want to put on the forum.
Jim