As far as public schools go, I fully believe they are what you make them. If you send your kids to them and expect the schools to raise your kids, THEN they will and do fail and I do agree that it is the equivelent of child abuse (mental).
However, if you participate in your children's education and stay on top of what they are or are not learning, then a public education is just fine. I also think that the social environment of public schools, whether a good thing or not is debatable, is a plus as it more closely models the real world. It helps children learn to deal with all different types of people.
I am a product of public schools as well. I grew up in da' hood and spent the first 1/2 of my education in Fulton County. We 'fled' in the early 80's and I finished up in Clayton County. Neither are anywhere that I would want to be today. I had a lot of friends from da' hood went to Woodward Academy as a way out of the public school system. My next door neighbors after we moved went to Woodward.
My public education was good enough to get me to a military academy. It wasn't because someone handed it to me though. I worked my ass off for it. Guess what I found when I got there? A bunch more products of private schools. Trust me, I have seen the good and bad side of both public and private education. Neither are perfect.
My biggest complaint against private schools is that people get accustom to and then can only associate with people 'just like them'. Put them around someone from a different social or economic demographic and they are either too superior or frightened to function for the most part.
That, and having 5 kids, private school just isn't going to be an option. Sorry. Call me a bad and/or irresponsible parent if you like. My public education has done well enough for me that I support a family of 7 on a single paycheck. No, my wife does not work. I am sure some folks here would suggest she get a good to pay their private school tuition. Having her home was a mutual decision and one made in the best interest of the kids. Unless you are a philanthropist and want to chip in for private school tuition, let's stick to the original question.
So, back to the regular scheduled program.........