Lexington county is the place to live, if in the midlands. Greenville area if upstate. Charleston is not my cup of tea, but some folks like it. Great gun laws, and getting better. Lexington is very conservative. It does get hot and humid during the summers, which run roughly May through October. Fall is Nov-Dec, winter Jan-Feb, spring Mar-Apr. No joke, I wear shorts 8 full months out of the year. I have lived here all my life, and I wish I could say you get used to the humidity, but you really do not. Make sure you get a home with good AC, plus your vehicles will all need AC. Columbia actually sits in a geographic trough that traps humidity and heat, especially June thru September. But all in all, it is a great place to raise a family. Lexington 1 schools are some of the best in the state.