Ok, I know the date is long since passed but... I'm new and the thread lacked a balanced male to female perspective....
For a first date where you haven't met or have barely met once, a movie is not to best venue. You need to talk and get to know each other to see if you can stand each other. You can't get a sense of who the other person is at a movie. Plus, if you already got coffee before the movie, you subtley asked her about her views on gun control, and she came back with the wrong answer... you are stuck with her for another two hours. Plus you are out the bazillion dollars that they are charging for movies now-a-days. ( I sound like an old fart).
Bowling is a good idea.
Star watching is a GREAT idea (and cheap).
Beer is a good idea, but not "Beer and..." unless she is the anti-gun girl you wasted the movie on, then, you gotta get SOMETHING out of it...
The Casino is good if it has been established that she is into that. Many girls are not, and will see you as the potentially gambling-a-holic who she has to visit during family day at the rehab clinic.
The ferry ride with take-out, sounded really romantic, and I was jealous of that guy's girlfriend. (no offense, Phil).
Deja Vu is like a 4th or 5th date thing and that can get very expensive. You would be responsible for giving her $ to give to the main dancers, and THEN if she gets asked for a lap dance (and she will, many times) you will be responsible for that too, if you say, "no," you look cheap, unless you say some crap like, "I'm sorry, baby, I just don't want to share you"...
On the end of the date... a gentleman doesn't kiss a girl on the first date, but if you've hung out a lot before the first date (which it sounds like you have) then it's weird if you don't kiss her... then it is just like hanging out... again... as friends.
No boom boom on the first date guys... unless you don't want to see her again, then it's ok.
Just my two cents, a little too late.