The best route to go has two possibilities:
1. If you have an AR already:
A. Buy a stripped lower and assemble it, put your upper on it and shoot the piss out of it to insure the lower is GTG.
B. Disassemble and have your lower engraved with the requisite information.
C. Send in your paperwork with a check and wait.
2. If you do not already have an AR:
A. Buy a stripped lower, pistol buffer tube and all other parts of your planned SBR. Assemble all parts into a pistol configuration.
B. Go shoot the piss out of it to insure the lower and the planned SBR configuration is GTG.
C. Disassemble and have your lower engraved with the requisite information.
D. Send in your paperwork and check.
E. Reassemble into a pistol configuration and shoot the piss out of it while waiting.
Option 1 has fewer steps.
Option 2 allows you to shoot your planned configuration while you wait for your stamp.
Both options will insure that your lower is in spec and GTG, that the engraver has not screwed, ruined, broken or lost your lower.
If one of these options is followed step by step and the lower is out of spec. lost. broken or somehow ruined a new lower will cost you $100.
If the steps are completed out of sequence and the lower is lost, broken, out of spec or some way ruined it will cost you $300, $100 for the new lower and $200 for a new stamp.
The stamp is non-transferable and non-refundable. The Treasury department does not care whether you paid the tax on a fully operational SBR, or a useless paper weight.
Make sure everything is GTG before you send them your hard earned money!