That should not be happening.
I suspect your neck in the sizer is overly tight.
Take the whole expander stem out. Lube a piece of brass and size it. Measure the outside neck diameter as well as the inside neck diameter. Measure the expander at the top, the widest spot, near the threaded rod end and in the middle lesser diameter near the knurling.
Also measure your neck walls, it will be a rough measurement without a tubing mic but should be close enogh. The neck wall should be about 0.013” thick.
Ideally your expander should leace you with about 0.003” smaller neck opening than your bullet. In my experience RCBS tends to make their sizing necks too tight and trusts their expander to make it right. It really is overworking the brass but in their defense their plan is to handle in brass thickness the user might have, extra thick or thin. Step one is to smush neck small to fix defects by the brass running to the top of the stroke, step two is while lowering the expander pops the brass back out to just enough to securely hold the bullet with an interference fit.
You could chuck the stem in a drill and polish it smoother.
Edit, If your numbers show an excessively tight neck sizing from the die, I would call RCBS and have them fix it.
Edit 2. I looked at your picture again.......It looks like you never got it over the expander and into the die? It jammed on the way over the expander, causing that wrinkle around the circumference and the subsequent withdrawl pulled the neck off?
Sounds like that is the incorrect expander for the die set. Even dry I would think it would not be quite that catostrophic, some screaching going over the expander.
You did rub the inside of the neck with a plastic lube brush right?