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I am looking for a better locking ring for my lee dies what is best
I don't like the o-ring it keeps falling out and the nut moves
This is what I do. This is my Hornady 223 dies with a Lee FCD. Notice the locknut on the FCD.
Drill (#21 drill bit) and tap with a 10/32 tap. Install 10/32x1/8 Allen lock nut.
Notice the hole for the lock nut is not centered, but drilled into the "most metal" part of the locknut.
Look at the inside of the locknut, it will become clear.
Now the lock ring uses the same Allen wrench to adjust as all my other dies.
If you mess up on the first try, there are still 5 more sides to the lock ring.
Tip: before you insert the locknut place a single #6 shot between the die threads and the locknut.
This piece of lead will protect the die threads from becoming burred by the locknut.
Do this to all of your die lock rings.