On magazine caps, and extension couplings, you're not supposed to tighten them down THAT tight.
You just screw either down until it gets snugged down then turn it one more "click".
You should be able to unscrew the cap or coupling with just your fingers. (Assuming you have normal strength hands).
Over tightening the collar or coupling can cause the barrel to actually bend slightly from the excess tension and cause problems.
I know, people sometimes get guns from Remington with super tight caps or couplings, but this is wrong and a factory error.
On Remington factory extension tubes, DO NOT tighten the tube itself down tightly.
This can cause the extension to mis-align with the gun's magazine tube and cause the follower or shells to jam or stick.
Screw the extension tube down into the coupling until it JUST contacts the gun's tube, then install the barrel clamp.
The clamp will prevent the extension tube from unscrewing.
Bottom line is, magazine caps and extensions do not need to be installed super tight, and doing so can cause problems.
On cleaning the gun, since I'm not independently wealthy and I have to pay for my own guns, I take good care of them.
This means I clean them EVERY time I fire them, no matter if it's one shot or 1000.
No one deliberately intends to let a gun rust or deteriorate. Finding rust or damage from not cleaning is ALWAYS a shock, and you always hear "But I never had this problem before".
Once a gun rusts, it can't be undone or really restored.
There is NO good reason NOT to clean a gun after every time it's fired, and some very good reasons you SHOULD clean it.
It all depends on how long you want the gun to last in good condition, and whether you take pride in owning good guns.
If you don't care, don't clean them.