I would go with the RIA and here is why.
Yes the springer is a better pistol. It is a forged frame, and a great base for custom work. However. you are looking for something that you can shoot and enjoy now. The springer will not have the items you are looking for, so you are going to constantly be wanting to upgrade, so you will not be happy with the pistol.
Here is what it is going to cost you to upgrade the pistol if say you send it back to springfield.
1911-A1 loaded pacakge $765.......upgrade your milspec to a loaded. You can buy a new loaded for that price, so why on earth would you do that?
So lets just upgrade with the bare bones upgrades to bring it up to some of the items the RIA already has on it.
Novak Sights 180.00
Skeletinized hammer $50.00
Ambi Safety $100.00
Lightweight trigger and action job $50 for trigger $80 for action job
Full length guide rod (you may or may not want this, but the rock has it, so I am including it) $50.00
Carry Bevel (again you may or may not want this, but the rock has it)....$80.00
Bevel and polish magazine well $55.00
Park complete pistol (you will need this after carry bevel and mag well bevel ) $80.00
Now breaking out my handy dandy calculator..... $765.00 before you pay for shipping. Again you could buy a new loaded for this price. Add to that the 5 or 600 you are going to pay for the mil spec to begin with and you could have purchased a TRP.
Unless you have huge amounts of money (which considering you are looking at RIAs and mil specs, I am guessing you don't) to blow on a 1911 to get it just the way you want it, I think anybody who buys a mil spec or GI with plans to later update it to loaded or better specs is a fool. It sounds great in theory, but financially it just doesn't make sense. Now if you wanted to tinker with it, and do the work yourself that is entirely different.
Don't get me wrong, I am not saying the RIA is going to be on par with a loaded or a upgraded mil spec. However everybody I have ever met who owned an RIA raved about them, so they must be doing something right.
And for the record, I am not and RIA fan boy. I have owned 1 in all my years and I traded it off before I ever shot it. The current focus of my affection is my SA Champion Operator.