Why are my para 14rd mags so hard to load to full capacity? and when I do manage to stuff all 14 rds into it, the spring seems too weak to properly function the first few rounds I even have the problem of after they are fully loaded that the first couple rounds will just fall out!!!.

I've tried to leave them loaded for a few weeks and I have tried shooting them often but the mags seem the same.

any help?

Have you cleaned the insides of the mags real good  and I do mean REAL GOOD ? You might want to try getting some Wolff mag springs to replace the factory ones with after you clean the mags out . With my P-13 I like to tap the mag base in my hand after I have loaded about 7 rnds then two taps at 10 rnds then top off the mag  this seems to help set the DBL stack.