Well, the latest autopistols...most, anyway... are designed to utilize "drop-in" parts for that very reason...to keep down the need for hand fitting, etc. Even S&W and other revolver manufacturers have changed designs to some degree or another to cut down on the need for this exacting hand work.
WAAAaaayyyy back when, S&W would "assign" a fitter to build most of a gun themselves, but that stuff stopped long before I was born, and I'm well over 50. They then went to an assembly line set up where they used "parts fitters" who had access to dozens of hammers, triggers, etc. at each station, and who would simply try parts until one fit correctly, or at least close enough that the fitter could take a swipe or two with a #2 Barrett file and voila, it worked.
This may still be...and probably IS...the method used now, but the part they don't tell you is that S&W has continued to require the fitters to turn out more and more work in the same time frames...which for a while, lead to some pretty crappy QC on new S&W's. This has mostly been corrected and the guns turned out over the last 10 years or so are, in many ways, better than those of the 10-15 years before them. FYI, the M66 had tons of problems for several years until S&W started listening to the guys using and maintaining the guns. Once they did that, things got better pretty quickly.
High quality revolvers require some very fine tolerances, but if they are "right" they will work for decades and do so with extreme reliability. If they are wrong...big problems. Magnum ammo increases the stress on parts, and the M66 and other "K" frame guns were originally designed to be shot a lot with .38 ammo and only occasionally with magnums...this is not a problem. When cops started shooting hundreds of rounds of magnum ammo yearly for qualification, the K frames simply did not hold up well to it. This is what brought about the "L" frame 586-686 series pistols, which DO hold up well to this kind of use.
I would not abandon the wheelgun if you prefer it to the auto, it still has some advantages, even now, but extreme "firepower" is not one of them...if that is important to you. Buying a used revolver...especially a PD trade-in...is not always the best way to go for someone who cannot look at the gun and see any obvious problem areas. On the other hand, there are many, many almost unused guns sometimes on the EE here and other places. I picked up an almost new 6in. 686 for $300 cash at a fun show well over a year ago...and I have shot it exactly 100 times since. No it is not for sale, but many more like it are. Here is one example...and no, I do not know the seller.
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