Bigsapper,
Well, I'm looking for a new "carry" pistol too.
I would like a .45, so I've looked at many.
The Wilson Combat in small carry frame is $2k but very nice.
The Kimber Ultra Carry CDP is very nice. Small frame 1911 also. Expensive too.
The Taurus PT145 is a 10shot .45 small, but I've heard various stories of problems with them.
I haven't looked at the Springfield Armory Hi-Cap small frame, but that is also a consideration.
The Kahr p40 is a nice small carry .40 S&W too and not very expensive.
If you want really small, the Beretta or Walther .380 is small and cool.
If you want to go inexpensive the Keltec or Makarov are very inexpensive and small.
If you want a revolver, you cannot beat the light, hammerless J-Frame smith in .357 or .38. Very light, no fun to shoot due to recoil, but hey, it's just to protect.