We found some Federal 130gr reduced recoil. She shot some of it yesterday and said it was great. Her grouping got a whole better, as good as it can be with a snubbie and completely new shooter. It felt a little stouter than .38 +p but less than the 125gr Federal, which honestly made it pretty unmanageable for me. I picked up couple hundred rounds of it so she can practice with it. I was suprised she handled the 125 gr fairly well, but it was a bit much.
She found out about the deafening roar those little bastards unleash the hard way.
She insisted shooting it with no hearing protection just to see what it was like, 6 hours later still ringing and fuzzy. But, like I explained. Better to be deaf or slightly worse hearing than dead.
I'll check into the +p also. My dad, like some of you, recommended the Speer Gold Dots, so I will also try to pick some of that up and she if she prefers it over any of the .357 loads. She actually wanted a .38, but I figured get the .357 and if she can handle it great, if not then she can just use .38 in it. Thanks ya'll, once again members here provide good info and quickly I might add.