Dye comes in vibrant colors and I found I could make very gradual changes by added a little more this or that. You will like the freedom when you try it. Too dark, throw in a little yellow. You dissolve it in denatured alcohol and then filter the crystals out, then just brush it on.
The process i used. Well thats kinda funny.
1. Strip original finish with Chemical stripper
2. No need to sand, seems pretty smooth
3. Use Tung oil finish for a rustic look
4. Sand down tung oil so that I can put poly on it.
5. Dye with Rit dye, scarlet, yellow, and brown dissolved in DNA, then filtered. Then got yelled at by wife for destroying new pants with a pleasantly russian red color.
6. Put on coat of helmsman gloss poly.
7. Sand down drops and runs of helmsman poly.
8. Thin Helmsman poly and proceed to try a wipe on finish
9. Sand down chunks of tshirt fabric left in poly as wipe on finish fails
10. Dye again with rit dye.
11. Get one can of Spray lacquer and spray about 15 very thin coats...success.