Thanks for the warm welcome and all the input.
a couple of points I would like to mention.
Keep in mind the heavy plates above and below, are distributing the pressure equally across the wood blocks. the press is the key. the layers of tape, not only protect the finish but also cushion it as the reciever bites into the wood,creating indentations in the block,which really helps hold it even better. the solid oak works great, maple might be too hard.. the key is setting the press right, like some of you noted to loose and its going to slip, to tight could turn into a nightmare.
also where you position the torque wrench makes a difference. at 12,9, and 6 o'clock you will be pulling on it ,in a unbalanced motion. when you position the wrench at 3 o'clock, its right at waist level, and allows you to hold it steady with a nice firm,downward push.
I had it nice and tight, and when it was torqued, nothing moved at all on it.the upper looks perfect.patiently setting it up is a must and I would say it you have a press and are experienced with it, this is a great way to go. I am getting ready to do another one,as soon as I get the upper in the mail.
The shim idea sounds great to me, especially if you have it torqued up to 50 lbs and it still needs to move to the next notch to line up. super clean threads and good grease, make a big difference.
thanks again,