Tools: Look at this Brownells link for the [url=http://www.brownells.com/aspx/NS/store/ProductDetail.aspx?p=432&s=1986#1986]AR-15 Tools kit[/url]
Many of the items that kit contains are not necessary - look at the individual descriptions. You will in any case need:
1 set of punches (1/4, 5/32, 1/8, 1/16)
1 hammer, preferably say brass/plastic combo
1 barrel wrench - a combo wrench will also help you with flash hiders and carbing stock castle nut
you may or may not need a torque wrench, some claim it's not required, others demand it - item of considerable debate
1 vise - vise blocks are nice such as an receiver action clamp, barrel clamp, and lower receiver blocks
1 set screwdrivers. Make sure they are hollow ground so they do not mess up your screws (only if you care)
Hex bit for carrier key bolts if your bolt carrier didn't come with the key already bolted on
Many barrels come with gas blocks/sight towers, but if you have to install a sight tower with taper pins, you might want a taper pin punch.
Yes, it will cost some money if you don't have these tools, but some of these tools will also be of general service for other projects as well.
Pre-ban receivers do not normally come fully stripped - IIRC ATFE says if they are stripped then they loose their preban status. Having the grip and a telestock would give you legal backing. That doesn't mean you can't score one stripped, but who's going to say anything? The preban barrels (threaded, bayo lug, flash hider) are available, just don't mount it to a post ban lower receiver. If you have such an upper (pre-ban), and you only have post ban lowers, ATFE could possible prosecute you for intent to assemble an assault weapon, but again, who's going to tell them?
Many companies sell the lower kits (Oly Arms, RRA, DPMS, and many others). For separate small parts, I recommend [url=www.georgiaprecision.com]Georgia Precision Shooter's Supply[/url] as if the order is small, they can ship to you very cheaply. Their parts are RRA and of high quality.
Good Luck!