I dont have a TA31A, but a good friend has one on his rifle. I myself am not a huge fan of the Triangle for the reason you mentioned. I much preffer the donut because I find it is a brighter and bolder reticle, with 5 aiming points. None of these aiming points are particularly fine or prescise, but they get the job done with better than acceptable accuracy in my experience and opinion. In case you might be wondering which 5 aiming points the donut has, they are the top line of the top of the donut, the bottom of the top line of the donut, the center hole of the donut, the top of the bottom line of the donut, and the bottom line of the bottom of the donut. You could stretch this out a little and go so far as saying it has 7 aiming points and include the top and bottom lines of the donut itself. for the record, the line of the donut itself is 1moa thick and the center donut is 2moa.
In contrast, the triangle has two aiming points, the top of the triangle and the bottom. I will not argue that the tip of the triangle is a more precise aiming point that the donut. It is, no doubt about it. But the bottom of the triangle is a very poor aiming point in my opinion. Not to mention there is no middle ground and the solid reticle will cover up your portions of the target. Whats more, between say 150 and 300 yards, your point of impact is probably going to be somewhere in that great unknown area under the triangle. So in general, I find the donut to be the more useful reticle of the two. In fact, I find it the most generally useful of all three choices.
Some folks might think that because the triangle is a solid reticle, it will be brighter and faster to use than the donut. I dont think that it is in my experience. Yes, the triangle is solid, and yes it is 4moa just like the donut. However, only the base of the triangle is 4moa, it tapers up smaller and smaller to the tip which is quite fine. All this means is that overall, the donut is actually the larger and in my opinion, brighter and more bold reticle in actual size and view. But, because it is hollow, it does not cover nearly as much of the target.
OK, having said *ALL* of that, I will readily testify that while the donut is my favorite reticle choice for the above and other reasons, I will take a triangle too. While it is not my personal first choice, it is still a beast of a general purpose optic and does many, many jobs very very well. Again, its almost like trying to pick which particular vintage of Opus One Cabernet you are going to have. All of them are premiere choices and you wont be disapointed with any.