Let's see, you want some ammo that's cheap, accurate, subsonic, and will operate the M261 but not tear it up, is that about it? Oh yes, you forgot to mention you'd prefer it be copper-washed to reduce possible lead/wax fouling of your gas system.
I feel your pain, my brother--I have several guns that shoot Dynapoints spectacularly and nothing else very well, and I am down to my last three or four thousand rounds of them.
Sadly, DPs are not in production at the moment and we don't know when they will be again. Winchester closed its ammo factory last year and built a new one down south somewhere. As I understand it, the new plant is now up and running BUT most if not all of their rimfire production is going to make .22 blanks for nail guns and such for the massive hurricane reconstruction. There are customers waiting for these with cash in hand. It looks like we won't see any more DPs in the pipeline until the end of the year, IF THEN.
Meanwhile, if you can find them anywhere at any price, buy them. Walmarts and KMarts are the primary outlets. We're getting reports around the country that people are still finding them there, sometimes in good quantities too. I went looking for DPs online last week and didn't find ONE supplier that showed them in stock.
But that doesn't solve your problem right now. My M261 also loves DPs but lately I've been looking for a replacement. The Rem Golden Bullets are the best I've found. There seems to be a flyer in every five shots BUT the other four group pretty well, and they're actually more consistent in my current 1/12 barrel than Dynapoints. Walmart is carrying them now--mine just started carrying them within the last month or so. Check back at your Walmart and see if they're in yet, or if they can get them for you.
As to hi-speeds being hard on M261s, I'm beginning to doubt this. Shortly after I found ARFCOM I read a post from a fellow who said that the 261s will break the little flat-tab spring at the back every 5000 rounds or so, so I ordered three or four spares from SARCO (they're only a few bucks each). So far I have not broken one but I only have about 2000-3000 rounds through the unit. But I have also NOT heard of anyone else breaking this spring, and I am beginning to think that that poster might have had some unique problem with his setup.
I don't recommend the Federal Bulks if accuracy is important to you--you'll do well to keep them in an inch at 25 yards through a standard barrel AR.
So it looks like for a while you can either pay the higher price for CCI Standards or something of the kind--and risk the lead/wax buildup in your gas system, as well--or try to find the Rem GBs and live with the crack, OR run the Fed bulks and live with crummy accuracy AND the crack.
As I said, I feel your pain.