Hey guys thanks for the responses, sorry it was so confusing it was pretty late.
Yes my rifle looks like the one pictured.
Basically if I move the optic all the way back on the rail I get a decent sight picture. But obviously I can't have a back up iron sight then. I do have QD for the Optic already, because the way it is positioned right now I have to take the optic off to flip up the iron sight.
I do think it has a bit to do with how I hold the rifle. Most guys seem to have their heads a bit more forward than I do. I'm used to more conventional rifles and moving the scope back far enough to get a perfect picture but I'm basically out of real estate on the upper rail to move optic back any further though.
Sorry I don't have any pictures it would probably make this all a lot easier to understand.
This is also my first AR. I built it from scratch, and I'm trying to get it setup in a way that is natural to me, that is the reason for the silly question. I don't know if ARs have special rules as far as form and holding positions go, or if my problem is just the short eye relief on the optic. I'm fairly tall at 6'4" so getting things setup comfortably for my monkey arms is usually a chore.
Thanks again guys.