Physically, cast are weakest, followed by milled (machined-from-billet) lowers, with forged lowers being strongest. Typically, though, machined lowers are stronger, because the walls are made thicker (these are also MUCH heavier). So you aren't exactly comparing apples-to-apples in most cases. Milled lowers are usually only used for match rifles, where their extra weight is an asset instead of a liability.
As DevL stated, the difference between forged lowers is mostly about where and how they differ from Colt SP1-style machining. In other words, what kind of sear block or unmachined area is there in the lower, and in the case of a Colt lower, what size fire control and/or pivot pins are used (Colt is the only manufacturer to use non-standard sizes in civilian rifles). Virtually all ARs today except Hesse/Vulcan use proper hard-coat anodizing as a finsih, though older rifles from some vendors did not.
-Troy