It depends heavily on what kind of ring you use under the muzzle device and what the kind of device it is. Cut washer and regular A1 birdcage, I usually just get really snug, no forcing it. The cut in the washer will prevent it from slipping away and there isn't too much to make the birdcage off. Using the crush washer is for timing the devices, like A2 birdcage with a closed bottom. You can snug the washer all you want without breaking anything, if you back off and on a few times. These are meant to wear down with each pressure twist.
Supressor mounts are a different story. They don't get any washers, normally, because they bottom out on the thread shoulders. You have to degrease the threads on the muzzle and the mount itself and use rock-set (it comes with all AAC mounts) so the mount does not come loose during fire. Rock-set has to cure for 24 hours before use. Back to your question: just make it nice and snug, don't get it to the point where you have a neck cramp from tightening it.
Don't use lock-tite on anything as it will melt off from any heat.