Thank you everyone, I am trying without a station ground.
I got my station working but have massive rf noise. I am experiencing noise of S9 and S9+2 at times.
When I got everything working in the afternoon, I could not receive ANYTHING. The only thing i could clearly receive was local AM Broadcast (I am only 10 miles from NYC, so the signal is likely extremely strong) I could not hear a single QSO on any of the bands. In disappointment I turned it all off and tried after dark.
When I tried after dark, I was able to work a few contacts from where I am in NJ near Montclair to Rochester, NY, Boston, MA and Long Island on 40meters but these were the only contacts I was able to make. These were also the only people I was able to receive even though I was told the band was extremely hot (40m). At this time I could not hear anything on 20,15,10 meters. (my fan dipole in the attic has legs cut for 1/2 wave length of 40,20,10 meters).
Surprisingly these contacts told me my signal was extremely strong and clear (i was using 50 watts). So I believe this rules out attentuation from being in the attic as my receive problem. I have been told that since my RF noise is so high, that only contacts well above my noise level will be able to break through which makes sense.
I am wondering if adding the station ground to the heater pipe might help with this? I have been told probably not. Is there anything I can do to reduce all this RF noise? I am planning on building a mag loop antenna to see if that helps as I am told they work great from apartments for people in my situation. In the meantime I would love to be able to get better results with my dipole, especially since I am told my transmit is excellent.
Thanks!