UPDATE...
Just wanted to give an update and say thanks for the info that kept me sane.
We had our first meal with the okra from our garden lastnight.
Enough for the wife and I, the 2 kids, plus our neighbors(with leftovers we ate tonight) so we've had a good haul so far from the 10 plants we have. Been cutting 6-10 a day and freezing them til we had enough for a meal.
Sorry no dinner pictures, completely forgot. It's still going strong, so maybe next time.
Thanks to all that helped with info when I asked!
I planted everything about a month ago, and aside from the okra, everything is right where it should be.
My squash, cucs, zucs, beans, tomatoes, etc are all nice and big, even have a few small zucchini growing.
Now, this is my first year growing okra. All the plants look hearty, but they are much smaller than the other veggie plants are. I think my tallest one is maybe 7 inches high or so.
Is this about where okra should be at this point, or do I need to think about a quick replant?
Thanks for any info!