I'm posting this here to avoid the sh*t storm that would ensue in GD, plus you all give the best advice.
Okay, a little background, my 22yr. old daughter, (only child) has a boy friend, this in and of it's self is no big deal.
She met this guy about 8 months ago and it looks like things might be getting a little serious, there has been some idle chatter of marriage. The guy is 27yrs old and a former Marine and an all around swell guy, so far no problem, he even has a real job and is very respectful to me and my wife. Again, so far no problem.
Lately he has been spending more and more time here, before we'd see him for a few minuets before they went out, or maybe a few hours when they both had the same day off. Now he is practically living here, my daughter has arraigned her schedule so she is off the same time he is which is Friday thru Sunday, he shows up early each morning and stays all day long. My wife and daughter both cook for him which is really not a problem I don't mind him having dinner with us, but my wife has started 'spoiling' him by making special breakfasts for him, (Stuff that
HE likes.) on weekend mornings and it's almost like he has come to expect it.
I know I'm sounding like an inhospitable ass, but damn it I like my privacy and think it's time for him to stay home more often.
In his defense, he has no family in the area so I imagine he likes the family atmosphere, my wife thinks he's great and so far has no problem with him.
So am I just being an ass, should I tell him to bugger off!!!??? Your words will dictate my response........