Okay my wife shoots a revolver fairly well but wants to get in to an automatic (multiple reasons) my ambition is to have two pistols that operate very similarly one for her and one for me. Whatever she ends up with will become our primary home defense gun as well.
She is not a big shooter, but recognizes the utility and neccesity and reliability of firearms. I can typically get her to the range 2-3 times a year. I don't push the issue but ask her to go most anytime I go. Right now my carry piece is a Glock 21 and I was thinking of a Glock 19 for her. She has a small hand and has a little issue with the slide catch on them however. But in general I think Glocks have it all over any other auto pistol in simplicity.
Another close contender is the CZ PO1, but it is a more complex handgun that requires more practice time. I would get one to match, so she could also use my primary pistol. Recently I also chanced to fire an XD9 which seemed almost as simple as the Glocks and might be a good choice. (I am reading about some durability issues with the XDs however.)
I really have two questions...
1) Are there any other pistols, in a similar price range that you ladies like (9mm)?
2) I know some of you ladies take firearms practice as seriously as the guys here, bu if not, what kind of introduction to autoloaders did you have, what kind of practice helps?