Oh, yeah, they grich. Let them!
Sorry, but I don't care what my family thinks, anymore.
We did not have any. I could not carry. My brotheres & sister and her daughter were constantly 'rubbing it in'. Pissed me off for quite some time, when that is all they would talk about. Then they tried to say, "Well you could always adopt". Not a chance! Then, of course there is the MIL who would just love to have a grandchild. Oh well.....too bad....never happen! I love them all anyway.
I guess I am hardened to it, as a form of self defense. I focus on all the good things I have because I do not have to "pay" for taking care of the little rug rats. Don't take this wrong, I am sure that if we had had one or two or five or ten, we would probably be as compassionate for the other side of the argument. But if a person chooses to do something or not to do it, it is their choice and others who disagree can just get over themselves. You can never
make someone do something they do not want to do.