in the interest of upping the ante....
which is better for the child, two loving parents willing to adopt or the single father who's sex partner conveniently nearly left him childless.
i agree the father has rights. but i also think in lots of instances indiscretions on the mother's part probably translate to indiscretions on the father's part.
would the guy who slipped the gal a date rape drug be considered a good father?
would a guy who'd have sex with a woman known to sleep around with several other guys be considered a good father?
would a guy who'd have sex with a woman and pay her for it in money for drugs or drugs outright be a good candidate for a father?
yes, i know these are extreme cases and not all babies born out of wedlock have parents with horrible morals and judgement. but what of the 21 y/o nursing student (random example) who gets pregnant with a boyfriend of 3 years and no plans of marriage?
is it in the child's best interest, assuming the nurse wants to let the child be adopted, to let the father raise it by himself?
at what point do the father's rights supercede the child's best interest or vice versa?
i don't have an answer, but i know which direction i lean. and the discussions here haved caused me to extend the picture beyond the original points.
i know the law doesn't necessarily correspond to what is best for the child, but i think that non-legal issues should also be considered.
Edited to say, I didnt know there was a women's shooters forum. I am not a woman and apologize for butting in on your topic.
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as for this, it's absolutely unnecessary. men are not excluded from the womenz forum. this place exists solely to give the more timid fairer sex a less hostile place to come when GD gets a little rough.