if they can't afford to give you something just talk to your bro and come to a mutual agreement to do a card or something instead.
I have been on both ends, I have had extra money and I've been the broke guy. It's *INCREDIBLY* tough to get presents from someone who is better off financially than you are. they can even say "nothing required in return" but you still feel bad.
so you may be trying to be a loving brother but it's probably stressing them out.
we had the same situation with my sis and bil, I like them both, but it got harder and harder to buy gifts for each other, and we have been a little luckier financially, they have to pay child support to his ex wife etc.
anyway, I talked it out with sis, and she still wanted to do gifts, so what we do now is draw names from a pool, and weh ave a 25 dollar max limit. We have three couples in the mix, The kids go into their own pool, and the adults do their own pool.
works really well and avoids a lot of expense and stress. And frankly, I'd rather spend money on a gift for myself than a bunch of gifts that they won't really use or didn't really want.
I spend a LOT of time in the year trying to maximize my 25 bucks for my gift target. Last year I found an HP printer on edealinfo.com that was Free plus 10 bucks back. So you basically made ten bucks.
I ordered three of them
. One for me, one for a spare and one for the victim. Then I took the ten bucks, added it to the 25 and had 35.
i found a scanner (which they needed ) that was 5 bucks after rebate, I bought that, and had 30 bucks. I used that and bought a CRKT folding knife that was 50% off. So they got a sweet photo printer, a scanner and a great knife.
they always think I cheat but I show them receipts. It's a lot of fun watching the bargain sites and getting as much as I can.