LT, if memory serves me correctly your gig is brokerage. If that is the case, you know the scene - your bread is buttered by those you know, and those that you make contact with, impress, and come to trust you decision making skills.
In CA., presumably you know people. What have you done in TX? Joined the chamber of comm? Run for an election? Gotten appointed to any civic committees? Joined the boards of any charitable orgs?
The song is the same anywhere. Business is personal connections. Many important community decisions are brokered in a backroom. You HAVE to be one of those people.
Brokerage / financial services is taking a bit of a beating everywhere right now. Give it some re-work your game plan. Give it some time.
The Ladies? Well..... we all know, you could be the fugliest mo fo in the whole world; but if you got grip and some fresh gear - you got more ladies than you know what to do with.
Good luck.
Edited to say - in reading this, it looks like I be edjamacated - lol. I think you get the point though. More importantly, I don't care about how it looks.