Prepare for the agony. I've scanned about 1600 old family photos myself. Didn't have any slides to worry about.
There are programs that will scan and separate groups of images, but the problem there is that you may get far better results if you do gamma-adjustments during scanning for each individual picture. You especially get this problem scanning old color photos (the red levels go crazy) and simply scanning all the photos at the default gamma and then trying to do color/gamma adjustments after the fact does not produce the same results.
I have a Canoscan LIDE 50, a cheapo $70 LED-light scanner a few years ago, that works great––if you adjust the gamma for every photo during scanning.
The one thing I dislike about it is that it is poor for scanning newsprint and magazine stuff, because it doesn't have a real "de-screen" function. For best results you need to be able to choose the LPI of the de-screen function while scanning.
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