Well i'm pretty much getting divorced, not by my choice but yeah i am getting fucked...  Anyways I have been trying to get things to work trying to get things to work and not making any progress.

For some reason i keep thinking we can work things out but i have just become more and more miserable, should i be a good husband and keep trying.

Or should I start friending old girlfriends on myspace and start working on a hot piece of pie when i return home...

I just feel like i keep betting crushed.

I went through a divorce, met my current wife while still seperated from wife #1.

It sucks..  I won't lie to you, but it gets better!!  I know it sounds cliche, but like most, it's based in truth..  Your life will suck and blow for awhile, then you will find someone who makes you happier than your wife ever did..

You should get your priorities in order; you need to begin looking into your worst case legal and financial options rather than go cruising for ass.

Lawyer.

Now.

IBTEP.
In Before The Eject pics.

The big question is do you have kids and if so how old are they?  I can put up with a lot of grief to stay with my kids but if no kids then I say eject before you have them!

This!

No matter how much you hope that either (A) you two will get back together or (B) the divorce will be friendly realize that She and her Atty are looking to take every penny possible from you.

LAWYER UP and PLAY TO WIN!!!!  

Speaking from experience!!

BIGGER_HAMMER

You should wait until the divorce plays out.  You're just at the beginning of the process.  As the finish line approaches then start playing the field.