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...I've heard arguments that it makes them feel insecure or paranoid, or that they should be scared all the time.
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No that's adult gunowners! Just kidding. [:)]
Seriously, there are some among us who are "paranoid and insecure", and seek guns as a way to feel stronger and safer. As evidence, I'd suggest looking at all the SHTF fantasies we like to kick around. Some people seriously prepare by planning to carry 35 pounds of weapons and ammo, forgetting about simple things like water, maps, and toilet paper.
That, and the statistics quoted above that delinquent boys (especially) are much more likely to have and carry guns than non-delinquent boys makes me worry. I don't think they're feeling all that secure, do you?
I do not think that guns themselves create that feeling, how could they? But guns are seen as an easy answer to reducing that feeling, doncha know. As someone noted above, security and stability come from the family structure, having enough to eat, and other basics.
The reality is that guns in the home increase the risk of accidental and intentional injury and death. How do we deal with that fact? My answer is hold gun-owners accountable for keeping guns secure and out of the hands of kids who shouldn't have them.