Yeah,
my wife manages some apartments - some guy came to look at apartments and here is a short list of the pertinent comments:
Him - "So are you a single mother?"
My wife - "No, I'm married" (she's wearing a wedding ring and has our son with her at the time)
Her - "There is a $25 application fee"
Him - "So would you like to get a bite to eat or grab a cup of coffee and I'll get you that check?"
Her -
"Um, no - you can just go to your car and get it for me now"
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Later, when he's signing a contract for the apartment, he was trying to get all buddy buddy with my 4 year old son - presumably as a way of showing my wife that he's 'good with kids'. He kept trying to ask my wife personal questions - where she was from, where she went to school, etc... she was annoyed because she was in a hurry. His questions culminated in this:
Him - "So, is your husband in the military?" (She doesn't know how he knew this since she hasn't mentioned it)
Her - "Yes"
Him - "So is he gone right now?"
Her -
"Uh, no."
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He came by our apartment (different location than the apartments he lives at) one night shortly after moving in to drop off some paperwork. Beforehand, my wife instructed him to either mail it to her or leave it in the drop box outside of the door. Instead, he knocked on our door at 9:00 PM (4 hours after her office hours have ended) to personally drop off the paperwork.
I was present for this one so he didn't make any of his usual comments, but I followed him out to his car to talk to him - the whole time he was looking over his shoulder while I stared at him. My wife stopped me from "talking to him" because she was worried I'd threaten him and get her fired/a restraining order against me/etc.
I guess that was enough because he hasn't said anything since then - or maybe my wife just isn't telling me about it any more.
20 years ago, I think I could have gotten away with knocking on the guys door and telling him to stay the Hell away from my wife. Now... I wonder if that would result in the police visiting me with a restraining order and a warning to not threaten the nice man.