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Posted: 11/1/2006 7:34:59 PM EDT
Do you have parameters that you abide to when considering age difference between yourself and a potential date?   I find that I do.   I feel really uncomfortable dating any women five years younger than I.  Makes me feel like a pervert.   I would however, consider going about six to eight years older than myself.   How about you?  I hear the stories of the 40yr old guys dating the chicks in their 20's and it just seems strange to me.  

Me - 31

Date - 26 - 38

Link Posted: 11/1/2006 7:38:26 PM EDT
[#1]
Whatever works.

Age is not that important, but a big gap can create problems.

Link Posted: 11/1/2006 7:41:32 PM EDT
[#2]
My kids tod me when i got divorced i couldnt date anyone under 35....I was 50.

As far as dating only...the younger the better!

LTR get closer to your age.
Link Posted: 11/1/2006 7:44:04 PM EDT
[#3]
I'm 23...

18 is what 5 years?

5 up and 5 bellow is my limit
Link Posted: 11/1/2006 7:45:39 PM EDT
[#4]

Quoted:
I'm 23...

18 is what 5 years?

5 up and 5 bellow is my limit


Yea and next year i bet  it will be 6
Link Posted: 11/1/2006 7:46:05 PM EDT
[#5]
Link Posted: 11/1/2006 7:46:17 PM EDT
[#6]
I recently turned down a hot 19 year old girl.  I felt like a damn pedophile even talking to her.  I'm 31 and was out partying in the bars when she was 9!
Link Posted: 11/1/2006 7:54:44 PM EDT
[#7]
At 37 I will go as young as the law allows if the girl doesn't object to my overt creepyness.
Link Posted: 11/1/2006 7:57:50 PM EDT
[#8]
It's a HUGE factor for me.  They have to either be old enough or young enough so that there is no chance that they will know my wife.
Link Posted: 11/1/2006 7:58:51 PM EDT
[#9]

Quoted:
It's a HUGE factor for me.  They have to either be old enough or young enough so that there is no chance that they will know my wife.



Link Posted: 11/1/2006 8:01:25 PM EDT
[#10]
Link Posted: 11/1/2006 8:01:33 PM EDT
[#11]
as long as she is legal i dont care.
Link Posted: 11/1/2006 8:03:54 PM EDT
[#12]
Half your age + 7.  

Not sure if there is an upper limit though, I guess it depends on how rich they are and how close to dying?

Link Posted: 11/1/2006 8:05:01 PM EDT
[#13]
im 45 i wont date a chick younger than 18 or older than 55 unless shes pretty hot.
Link Posted: 11/1/2006 8:06:02 PM EDT
[#14]
+/-4, no party animals...

21 and younger -> way too immature... I don't care how she looks (that's for later), if all the wants to talk about is the last time she was drunk, or if she thinks I talk in 'speeches' because I use words with more than 4-5 letters -> no go...

Link Posted: 11/1/2006 8:06:23 PM EDT
[#15]

Quoted:
im 45 i wont date a chick younger than 18 or older than 55 unless shes pretty hot.


So the hot 15 year olds are fair game, huh.
Link Posted: 11/1/2006 8:06:45 PM EDT
[#16]
Link Posted: 11/1/2006 8:19:32 PM EDT
[#17]
As long as she can keep from telling my wife, I'll date anyone.
Link Posted: 11/1/2006 8:23:54 PM EDT
[#18]
I'm 23.  The girl I date is 30 and its not an issue for me, but sometimes she'll have an issue with it, but they are short lived and not a big deal overall.

I don't think I'd be able to tolerate anyone under 25.  Too crazy.

Brian
Link Posted: 11/1/2006 8:28:40 PM EDT
[#19]
Not really.  

21-26 Amusing date, not really expecting to be impressed, probably find them annoying

27-34 Possible marriage material

35-38 Maybe, maybe not

39-55 Only for sex
Link Posted: 11/1/2006 8:39:55 PM EDT
[#20]

Quoted:
Half your age + 7.  

Not sure if there is an upper limit though, I guess it depends on how rich they are and how close to dying?



+1 on the half your age +7 years on the lower end. However I'm usually most comfortable with 10 years either side of my age.
Link Posted: 11/1/2006 8:43:29 PM EDT
[#21]
I've dated 10 years older and 18 years younger, so I would have to say no, it is not a factor.

Link Posted: 11/1/2006 8:43:31 PM EDT
[#22]
I'll nail 'em all the way from 19 to 10 years older than me, but

I wouldn't date anyone younger than 10 years below me.
Link Posted: 11/1/2006 8:49:21 PM EDT
[#23]
Here again to say that I like summer girls........



some are 18...some are 19
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