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Posted: 4/12/2006 8:43:13 PM EDT
When I was in High School and 15 years old I had consentual sex with a female who was in her mid 20s.

Age of consent in the state it occurred was 16 at the time.

According to a prevalent view I've seen on this forum I was raped.

TEACHER WHO HAD SEX WITH MINOR ARRESTED AGAIN

So why don't I feel violated?
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 8:43:49 PM EDT
[#1]
Enjoy the love...
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 8:44:57 PM EDT
[#2]
I vote:

Rape, And You Were Clearly Traumatized...


obviously you wouldnt feel the need to surround yourself with impliments of protection(guns, ammo and lots of them) if you werent scared of it happening again
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 8:45:19 PM EDT
[#3]
[napoleon dynamite]lucky[/napoleon dynamite]
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 8:48:35 PM EDT
[#4]
It was statutory rape...

But you were one lucky bastard.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 8:53:39 PM EDT
[#5]
You were raped, and SHE was lucky.  

You were probably lucky you didn't catch some wicked VD.  

There all all sorts of victimless crimes in our society.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 8:53:55 PM EDT
[#6]
Puberty = sexually an adult.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 8:54:48 PM EDT
[#7]
Wait how hot was she?  Can you post her senior year book pic?
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 8:56:22 PM EDT
[#8]
If on a scale of 1 to 10, she was a <6 then you were raped.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 8:56:59 PM EDT
[#9]
I had this math teacher in 9th grade. I'd sell you guys into slavery to hit that. Wow.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 8:57:02 PM EDT
[#10]
You lucky bastard!
Oh course, by law, you were.
But, I have to ask, where was Pam Rogers and Debra LaFave when I was a damn kid?
cc, out.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 8:57:14 PM EDT
[#11]

Quoted:
Wait how hot was she?  Can you post her senior year book pic?



Average. She was long out of HS when I hit it. Was one of my friends older sister.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 8:58:56 PM EDT
[#12]

Quoted:
You were raped, and SHE was lucky.  

You were probably lucky you didn't catch some wicked VD.  

There all all sorts of victimless crimes in our society.





Yeah because girls who have sex have cooties...
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 8:59:40 PM EDT
[#13]
When I was 15 I was having sex almost on a daily basis with the 30ish gal that lived next door to my parents.  It was great, to this day it was still one of the best times of my life and I've had some pretty damn fine times since then.  She was pretty hot too.   The only "violation" I felt was when she and her hubby (a local assistant pastor who thought sex was dirty) were reunited and moved away.

I guess she seduced me, although it sure as hell didn't take much.  But rape?  Not bloody likely, you couldn't have wiped the smile off my face with a sheet of 80 grit sandpaper and a can of MEK.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:09:49 PM EDT
[#14]


Quoted:

So why don't I feel violated?



Lots of women who were sexually abused as children, and who grow up to be drug-addicted strippers and porn stars also don't "feel" violated.  Not saying that you were horribly traumatized or anything - I'm just pointing out that in actual cases of sexual abuse, how the victim later "feels" is NOT necessarily the measure of whether abuse/violation took place, because their judgment is often screwd up because of how their head was messed with at an early age.

Women who were physically abused will often be inexplicably attracted to abusive men when they are adults - showing how such events in developmental years can completely fuck up judgment later in life, and screw up people for the rest of their lives.  

Just a more abstract observation, not a specific comment on your case.




However, I would say that the 20 year-old who was having sex with you was a criminal, and were I on a jury in her case, I would vote to put her in prison.  
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:10:06 PM EDT
[#15]

Quoted:

Quoted:
Wait how hot was she?  Can you post her senior year book pic?



Average. She was long out of HS when I hit it. Was one of my friends older sister.




STill awesome

Steyr, you're like a hero to us all. In so many ways that aren't even HK related.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:13:49 PM EDT
[#16]

Quoted:
I had this math teacher in 9th grade. I'd sell you guys into slavery to hit that. Wow.




My 5th grade math teacher was a Tampa Bay Buc Cheeleader on the weekends.....Reading this thread thread made me google an image...yup 30 years later..still hot
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:15:09 PM EDT
[#17]
I saw the title and thought this was going to be another moving thread.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:16:19 PM EDT
[#18]
Did you enjoy it? If the answer is yes, then you weren't raped.

You just got boo-koo lucky; cause you got some boom-boom.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:16:34 PM EDT
[#19]
Just like I said on the other post

Let me try to calm ya'll down .... I think that no one would argue with this statement.......

" Pedophiles are fucking immature assholes "
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:16:43 PM EDT
[#20]
One word... NAMBLA
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:18:10 PM EDT
[#21]
You cant rape the willing
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:18:35 PM EDT
[#22]
so a boy's parents are called into the principal's office.  the principle informs them that the boy was caught having sex with the teacher.  the parents say that they'll handle it.  when they get home, the mother screams at the boy and grounds him.  when he's in his room, the dad comes in and says "son, i don't want your mother to know about this, but i'm proud of you.  it takes a real man to bag his teacher.  c'mon, i'll take you on a motorcycle ride.:

the son says "i dont know about that, my butt is still sore from having sex with Mr. Johnson."
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:23:08 PM EDT
[#23]

Quoted:
so a boy's parents are called into the principal's office.  the principle informs them that the boy was caught having sex with the teacher.  the parents say that they'll handle it.  when they get home, the mother screams at the boy and grounds him.  when he's in his room, the dad comes in and says "son, i don't want your mother to know about this, but i'm proud of you.  it takes a real man to bag his teacher.  c'mon, i'll take you on a motorcycle ride.:

the son says "i dont know about that, my butt is still sore from having sex with Mr. Johnson."



Lets not try to confuse the purity of a Hot 20's Something Female Teacher with a willing student with something that is so very wrong.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:26:10 PM EDT
[#24]

Quoted:

Quoted:
so a boy's parents are called into the principal's office.  the principle informs them that the boy was caught having sex with the teacher.  the parents say that they'll handle it.  when they get home, the mother screams at the boy and grounds him.  when he's in his room, the dad comes in and says "son, i don't want your mother to know about this, but i'm proud of you.  it takes a real man to bag his teacher.  c'mon, i'll take you on a motorcycle ride.:

the son says "i dont know about that, my butt is still sore from having sex with Mr. Johnson."



Lets not try to confuse the purity of a Hot 20's Something Female Teacher with a willing student with something that is so very wrong.


Therein lies the double standard.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:28:12 PM EDT
[#25]
You need to stop bragging.

You own many exotic MGs

Master of Japanese lore

Your kung-fu is strong

and you bagged a 20 something at 15 (probably without even trying)


You or worthy of joining my club.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:28:16 PM EDT
[#26]

Quoted:

Quoted:

Quoted:
so a boy's parents are called into the principal's office.  the principle informs them that the boy was caught having sex with the teacher.  the parents say that they'll handle it.  when they get home, the mother screams at the boy and grounds him.  when he's in his room, the dad comes in and says "son, i don't want your mother to know about this, but i'm proud of you.  it takes a real man to bag his teacher.  c'mon, i'll take you on a motorcycle ride.:

the son says "i dont know about that, my butt is still sore from having sex with Mr. Johnson."



Lets not try to confuse the purity of a Hot 20's Something Female Teacher with a willing student with something that is so very wrong.


Therein lies the double standard.



Ya ever think that the double standard is because boys and girls are very different?
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:28:17 PM EDT
[#27]
You have definately developed a complex from this encounter. You're going to need years of counseling to combat it's effects.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:28:49 PM EDT
[#28]
You may have not been raped in the way we think of it as a violant crime.  You were victomized and she did commit an act of unlawful sexual intercourse with you.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:29:45 PM EDT
[#29]

Quoted:
You need to stop bragging.

You own many exotic MGs

Master of Japanese lore

Your kung-fu is strong

and you bagged a 20 something at 15 (probably without even trying)


You or worthy of joining my club.



Boy did you hit the nail on the head!  I say Aug has to give us some of his MG's in atonement!  Priviledged bastard!  
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:29:56 PM EDT
[#30]

Quoted:
You cant rape the willing



Bingo.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:30:29 PM EDT
[#31]

Quoted:
When I was in High School and 15 years old I had consentual sex with a female who was in her mid 20s.



I'm having a hard time feeling sorry for you.

Its interesting though...if you were a woman, and the teacher a man...I think it would bother me.



Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:33:46 PM EDT
[#32]

Quoted:

Quoted:

Quoted:
so a boy's parents are called into the principal's office.  the principle informs them that the boy was caught having sex with the teacher.  the parents say that they'll handle it.  when they get home, the mother screams at the boy and grounds him.  when he's in his room, the dad comes in and says "son, i don't want your mother to know about this, but i'm proud of you.  it takes a real man to bag his teacher.  c'mon, i'll take you on a motorcycle ride.:

the son says "i dont know about that, my butt is still sore from having sex with Mr. Johnson."



Lets not try to confuse the purity of a Hot 20's Something Female Teacher with a willing student with something that is so very wrong.


Therein lies the double standard.



I'm ok with that. Until the time it is shown to me that these females are shown to be multiple offenders, pose a physical risk, have threatened an unwilling participant.

These patterns of behavior have been seen in male pedophiles, so maybe the news just isn't covering all the details with respect to female offenders. Until then I remain unconvinced.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:34:18 PM EDT
[#33]

Quoted:
One word... NAMBLA







JUDY  JU  JU  JU   ............................................
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:42:20 PM EDT
[#34]

Quoted:
When I was in High School and 15 years old I had consentual sex with a female who was in her mid 20s.

Age of consent in the state it occurred was 16 at the time.

According to a prevalent view I've seen on this forum I was raped.

TEACHER WHO HAD SEX WITH MINOR ARRESTED AGAIN

So why don't I feel violated?



Cause EVERY teenage boy WANTS something like that to happen!!!!
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:43:34 PM EDT
[#35]

Quoted:

Quoted:
When I was in High School and 15 years old I had consentual sex with a female who was in her mid 20s.



I'm having a hard time feeling sorry for you.

Its interesting though...if you were a woman, and the teacher a man...I think it would bother me.





What a hypocritical double standard!

I voted for "yes and you were traumatized" because it explains a lot
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:43:51 PM EDT
[#36]

Quoted:

Quoted:
One word... NAMBLA







JUDY  JU  JU  JU   ............................................



Every child predator in the world eventually utters the words “BBBBBut iiiitt was consensual.”

A child can not adequately comprehend the act. They also can not give consent.

I’m not talking legal here… Morally, sex with a child is repugnant. The people who condone that shit are repugnant.  Male adult, Female adult, homosexual, heterosexual… I do not care. Child predators are the scum of the earth.  
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:44:49 PM EDT
[#37]
You're over 18 now, so it will not matter if you are in Washington State.

Still waiting the ohter shoe to fall on that one with all the male rapist in this state.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:45:09 PM EDT
[#38]

Quoted:
You lucky bastard!
Oh course, by law, you were.
But, I have to ask, where was Pam Rogers and Debra LaFave when I was a damn kid?
cc, out.



That Debra LaFarve, holy Sheiit!! I also would sell you guys in a heartbeat to have tapped that when I was a teen!!!!!!!!

Seriously, we had this one student teacher when I was in the 7th grade, she was the most gorgeous woman I have ever seen, even to this day! Name was Debbie Baucomb. Us boys were bad to her and she wound up quitting teaching. I hope we didn't have anything to do with it.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:45:50 PM EDT
[#39]

Quoted:

Quoted:

Quoted:
When I was in High School and 15 years old I had consentual sex with a female who was in her mid 20s.



I'm having a hard time feeling sorry for you.

Its interesting though...if you were a woman, and the teacher a man...I think it would bother me.





What a hypocritical double standard!

I voted for "yes and you were traumatized" because it explains a lot



Don't make me you.


Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:46:11 PM EDT
[#40]
So we just turn the pedophiles lose on our kids?

I mean if they don't complain it is all okay, hmmmm?

I really worry about some of you some times. Worry about my country. I'd say the human species is a write off.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:47:10 PM EDT
[#41]

Quoted:
When I was 15 I was having sex almost on a daily basis with the 30ish gal that lived next door to my parents.  It was great, to this day it was still one of the best times of my life and I've had some pretty damn fine times since then.  She was pretty hot too.   The only "violation" I felt was when she and her hubby (a local assistant pastor who thought sex was dirty) were reunited and moved away.

I guess she seduced me, although it sure as hell didn't take much.  But rape?  Not bloody likely, you couldn't have wiped the smile off my face with a sheet of 80 grit sandpaper and a can of MEK.



Ya lucky bastard!! Can you hear the jealousy???
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:48:53 PM EDT
[#42]

Quoted:
When I was in High School and 15 years old I had consentual sex with a female who was in her mid 20s.

Age of consent in the state it occurred was 16 at the time.

According to a prevalent view I've seen on this forum I was raped.

TEACHER WHO HAD SEX WITH MINOR ARRESTED AGAIN

So why don't I feel violated?



It is a sign of the times when you must specify it was a female
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:50:00 PM EDT
[#43]
NO.... YOU WERENT RAPED. Its not possible to rape a male. Without him being aroused nothing is gonna work if ya catch my drift... So, ya CANT RAPE A MALE....

Flame if you will, but thats a biological & physiological fact.

Say whatever about mental trauma, but I doubt you will find any young boys that are terribly upset over being with a good looking older woman.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:54:19 PM EDT
[#44]
Were you an unwilling or uncomprehending participant? The letter of the law was broken (and then only in some jurisdictions) but the spirit is to protect a minor from abuse of soneone who is deliberately using that minor for gratification when said minor uncomprehending to the act and full consequences of it.

Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:54:40 PM EDT
[#45]
Serious question SA.  If one day your 15 year old daughter ends up getting jiggy with some 25 year old punk, would you feel violated then?

Most of the members here would be thinking "SSS.


Link Posted: 4/12/2006 9:56:26 PM EDT
[#46]

Quoted:
NO.... YOU WERENT RAPED. Its not possible to rape a male. Without him being aroused nothing is gonna work if ya catch my drift... So, ya CANT RAPE A MALE....

Flame if you will, but thats a biological & physiological fact.

Say whatever about mental trauma, but I doubt you will find any young boys that are terribly upset over being with a good looking older woman.



And a 15 year old girl can't get aroused?

I don't many of you have any idea how easy it is to get a 13 year old girl to want to have sex. Only thing preventing more of it is the ineptness of 13 year old boys. And isn't that the whole point?

You people are bent.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 10:00:51 PM EDT
[#47]

So why don't I feel violated?


'Cause you're not ghey.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 10:16:02 PM EDT
[#48]
Can't rape the willing.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 10:16:40 PM EDT
[#49]
Going by how today's legal standards for rape are...

I was legally molested/raped by a variety of female adults countless times from the ages of 15 through 17.  From ages 18 through now, nothing's changed other than it's now called consentual sex between a male and female adult.  I'm completely fine with that.

Take this... I lost my virginity at age 15 to two women age 18 at the same time while I was CONSENTING to be handcuffed to a bed.  That set the bar for my future sex life pretty high, if you know what I mean.  Think I ran to my mommy and daddy and complained???  Actually, I kinda celebrated the story about it with my dad much later in life.

If I would have been banging my favorite highschool teacher at age 15, the last thing I'd want is for anyone to find out and spoil it for me.
Link Posted: 4/12/2006 10:19:41 PM EDT
[#50]
I know Henry Bowman is really SteyrAUG.
I know it.
Seriously.
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