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Posted: 3/30/2006 7:06:12 PM EDT
OK, how many kids do you have?

I had a talk with the wifey and I told her, I want 7 kids and she isn't too happy, she only wants 3 kids. I will fully support my kids with NO government assistance.

Her reason is, she doesn't want to get out of "shape".





Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:07:19 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:07:57 PM EDT
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In Before 87.


I get married 22 April 2006, My future wife and I will be producing 2 offspring.
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:08:01 PM EDT
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How many kids do you have or plan to have in your family..... ?  







i have 3 kids.  i planned for none...


funny how that works.  
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:08:24 PM EDT
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Tell her that milkin her titties during feeding time will keep her weight off


ETA: I've got a 5 year old boy and another boy due next month...my wife wants more but I plan on stopping there....
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:08:29 PM EDT
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God bless....

Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:09:51 PM EDT
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2...that I claim and pay for
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:09:55 PM EDT
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In Before 87.


I get married 22 April 2006, My future wife and I will be producing 2 offspring.



Mine will be 5 boys and 2 girls.....
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:10:34 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:10:42 PM EDT
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How many kids do you have or plan to have in your family..... ?  







i have 3 kids.  i planned for none...


funny how that works.  




I'm hoping the wifey will reconsider...... .....
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:10:54 PM EDT
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Two fine sons
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:12:02 PM EDT
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Tell her that milkin her titties during feeding time will keep her weight off


ETA: I've got a 5 year old boy and another boy due next month...my wife wants more but I plan on stopping there....




I'll make sure of it.....

and

Yeah, I'm hoping for all boys too.... but she wants at least 1 girl, so the man's got to compromise...
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:13:08 PM EDT
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Two fine sons



Good for you man, I will keep that in mind, I will raise them to be honorable men.

Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:13:34 PM EDT
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Told my G/F I want 12. Sh said "no", guess ill take up paligimy........
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:14:03 PM EDT
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I have one, and she's probably it.

SG
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:14:48 PM EDT
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2...that I claim and pay for



I'm sure they appreciate you for it.

Thanks.

Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:15:39 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:16:06 PM EDT
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The upside is, you get to keep all your finances to yourself which is alright as well.

Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:17:17 PM EDT
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Told my G/F I want 12. Sh said "no", guess ill take up paligimy........



I know some people in Utah have 10-15 kids.....  
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:17:37 PM EDT
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I have 3 kids.  I wanted 4 but it wasn't in the cards.  After numerous miscarriages and difficult pregnancies, I'm happy with my 3.

Patty
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:17:54 PM EDT
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My wife and I have four.  I just turned 30.  We have no multiples (twins/triplets/etc.)  We plan on having as many as God blesses us with.  No, we're not Catholic or Mormon, but children are God's ultimate blessing.

Remember the Alamo, and God Bless Texas...
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:18:27 PM EDT
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Just one, he already exists, that's it. I'll be 37 when he turns 18 in 9 years and that sounds good to me. He lives with me most of the time now. If he wants to go to college and still needs some support that's fine, it still sounds good knowing I'll be out of the kid business by my early 40's hopefully.
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:19:14 PM EDT
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I have one, and she's probably it.

SG




How do you deal with her when she grows up? man, I couldn't imagine raising a daughter, I'm afraid, I'd do something stupid, I hope I'm wrong.

Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:20:23 PM EDT
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Told my G/F I want 12. Sh said "no", guess ill take up paligimy........



Does she have good looking sisters?  
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:20:55 PM EDT
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None right now, but I'd like to have a boy and a girl...however many tries that takes.



I'm On it at all times.......like a little baby factory......
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:21:14 PM EDT
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I mean 0.
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:22:45 PM EDT
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I have one, and she's probably it.

SG




How do you deal with her when she grows up? man, I couldn't imagine raising a daughter, I'm afraid, I'd do something stupid, I hope I'm wrong.




Raising a daughter isn't hard.  My oldest is 7, and she's great.  You treat daughters kindly, correct their mistakes, love them, and watch as they grow up.  Last weekend my daughter helped me put down laminate flooring.  For her 8th birthday this year she gets her .22 since she's shown she can handle the responsibility.  I'll be spending all summer building it for her.  She's like a tomboy who likes dresses and frilly stuff.  Definitely a daddy's girl.

Remember the Alamo, and God Bless Texas...
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:22:54 PM EDT
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I have 3 kids.  I wanted 4 but it wasn't in the cards.  After numerous miscarriages and difficult pregnancies, I'm happy with my 3.

Patty



I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriages, but the best thing is, you have 3 while most of don't or due for the first one and have a long way to go......

Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:24:21 PM EDT
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My wife and I have four.  I just turned 30.  We have no multiples (twins/triplets/etc.)  We plan on having as many as God blesses us with.  No, we're not Catholic or Mormon, but children are God's ultimate blessing.

Remember the Alamo, and God Bless Texas...



God bless....
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:25:34 PM EDT
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Just one, he already exists, that's it. I'll be 37 when he turns 18 in 9 years and that sounds good to me. He lives with me most of the time now. If he wants to go to college and still needs some support that's fine, it still sounds good knowing I'll be out of the kid business by my early 40's hopefully.



Oh sh**, I'm still in the early stages.... I'm a newbie dad.....
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:25:53 PM EDT
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My Ex wife produced two which she claims are mine .
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:29:11 PM EDT
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We have 3, planned on none.
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:29:55 PM EDT
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Raising a daughter isn't hard.  



You'll be thinking differently once she hits 13
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:31:32 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:33:19 PM EDT
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You're a newlywed right ? That sounds good when your 22, wait till her "clock" starts ticking
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:33:25 PM EDT
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My Ex wife produced two which she claims are mine .



Wondering, if you can request a paternity test?
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:34:27 PM EDT
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We have 3, planned on none.



well, that's encouraging.........
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:35:32 PM EDT
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My wife and I have four.  I just turned 30.  We have no multiples (twins/triplets/etc.)  We plan on having as many as God blesses us with.  No, we're not Catholic or Mormon, but children are God's ultimate blessing.

Remember the Alamo, and God Bless Texas...



God bless....



Same to you, and good luck!  Just remember to relax and enjoy it.  It's easy for every little thing to get blown out of perspective when you are just starting with your first.  Every sniffle is a cold or illness.  Every scrape is a permanent scar.  Now, as long as no one needs stitches or x-rays we take it in stride.  

Remember the Alamo, and God Bless Texas...
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:36:13 PM EDT
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I have three, 16,13,10.
I'm 35.
Wouldn't trade them for the world.
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:37:30 PM EDT
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You're a newlywed right ? That sounds good when your 22, wait till her "clock" starts ticking



What he said, you could be in for a surprise and she want 12 kids.....
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:39:38 PM EDT
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My wife and I have four.  I just turned 30.  We have no multiples (twins/triplets/etc.)  We plan on having as many as God blesses us with.  No, we're not Catholic or Mormon, but children are God's ultimate blessing.

Remember the Alamo, and God Bless Texas...



God bless....



Same to you, and good luck!  Just remember to relax and enjoy it.  It's easy for every little thing to get blown out of perspective when you are just starting with your first.  Every sniffle is a cold or illness.  Every scrape is a permanent scar.  Now, as long as no one needs stitches or x-rays we take it in stride.  

Remember the Alamo, and God Bless Texas...



I truly appreciate your posts, thank you.

BTW: If I can be of any assistance, feel free to PM or eMail.

Thanks.

Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:39:56 PM EDT
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nope.  i married a girl who wants even fewer kids than i do!
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:44:04 PM EDT
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I have three, 16,13,10.
I'm 35.
Wouldn't trade them for the world.



It's good to start early, wish I started when I was in my early 20's but I had other things to take care of, so the marriage + kids thing was put on hold until the last couple years....

It's nice to be a friend as well as a Dad to your grown up kids, see it all the time..... good for you.

Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:45:23 PM EDT
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We have 3, planned on none.



well, that's encouraging.........



Oh not complaining at all! They're great!

My wife and I were only dating a few months when she got pregnant with our first. Long story short, 9 years  and 3 kids later, we couldn't be happier. We never talked about having kids until we were having one. Life works in mysterious ways I suppose.

I think that the point I'm trying to make is, sometimes, it's lifes surprises that turn out to be the most rewarding. I couldn't imagine my life without any of them now.
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:45:53 PM EDT
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nope.  i married a girl who wants even fewer kids than i do!



She's gonna need somebody to talk to when your going for your 200,000th post in a couple of years
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:45:54 PM EDT
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3 and extremely proud of all of them!  Wouldn't trade them for the world!

2 college graduated boys and one 6-year old daughter.  Don't plan on anymore because I don't want to be another Abraham.



HH
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:47:47 PM EDT
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Got 4.  All boys.   Three now in the service.  Wasn't easy, but also a lot of fun along the way.  Youngest is now 20.  Damn it sure went fast.  
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:49:49 PM EDT
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Raising a daughter isn't hard.  



You'll be thinking differently once she hits 13



While it's possible, I am not concerned.  I have a shotgun, a .45, and a shovel.    Seriously, we have a couple of things going for us:

1. We home school, so we have a good relationship with her.  Plus we know all of her friends and their families.  Also, none of our children will date in the traditional sense.  My daughter already knows that we will be practicing old fashioned courting while she is supported by us.

2. I've always treated my daughter with love and respect and told her that anyone interested in her better treat her better than I treat her or her mother.  While our relationship is not perfect, my wife and I do provide a good example of what a loving relationship should be.

3. She's daddy's girl, but she's not spoiled.  She hears no a lot more often than she hears yes when she wants something.

4. We don't watch TV, so she doesn't see all the stupid stereotypes she's expected to fit into as a kid and a young woman.  Pop culture isn't doing our children any good, especially the young women who are taught they have to be sex objects and live up to unattainable stereotypes to have any self worth.  

5. She's a beautiful kid, and she knows it without being conceited, and that's not just a biased father talking; she's been offered modeling work for Foley's and other print media since she was 5, but we did not like the people or the conditions.  I'm not dropping her off at a photo shoot and then waiting in another room while they take pictures of my child without me or my wife present, and it doesn't matter how reputable the agency or who their clients are.

And, I still have that shotgun and a shovel.

Remember the Alamo, and God Bless Texas...
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:51:59 PM EDT
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1 but I would like 5.
Link Posted: 3/30/2006 7:55:42 PM EDT
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Oh not complaining at all! They're great!

My wife and I were only dating a few months when she got pregnant with our first. Long story short, 9 years  and 3 kids later, we couldn't be happier. We never talked about having kids until we were having one. Life works in mysterious ways I suppose.

I think that the point I'm trying to make is, sometimes, it's lifes surprises that turn out to be the most rewarding. I couldn't imagine my life without any of them now.




I couldn't argue with that........

Thanks.
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