I am now teaching 7th and 8th grade Resource Math. This is considered part of Special Education, though none of my students have IQ's below 70. Some of them are very low, but they can function reasonably well. Their regular teacher is out on medical leave. I was asked to take the class over to prepare them for the State mandated math tests coming up in about 6 weeks.
To be enrolled in Resource Math a student must be significantly below grade level in math skills. This happens several ways.
"Emotionally Disturbed" label is given to kids who do not act appropriately in a classroom setting. Acting like a middle schooler will not get you labeled this way. The sort of behavior that it does cover includes:
1. ADD or ADHD. I had one of my kids throw this at me as an explanation for his poor performance. I told him that wasn't going to work with me. I am ADD and my family will readily vouch for it. I have to work at sticking with one task. Otherwise, I will go many different directions at the same time and never finish anything. I told him that everyone has a cross to bear and that it was his responsibility to carry his successfully. I added that I wasn't going to do his work and that I would ride his little fanny to make sure he did his on time. (Remarkably, he is now doing his work.)
2. Autistic. This is a tough one for any kid. There's no faking this. Autistic kids tend to zone out. It is very tough for them to be a part of the world that surrounds them. The one kid I am dealing with now is doing much better. I taught him for 5 weeks last semester. Most of the time he was non-functioning in the classroom. He is doing much better now. He knows me and responds to my directions. I suspect that he feels "safe" with me. Even so, he comes across as very "dull" or emotionally flat.
3. Spoiled rotten brat. This is not an official educational designation. I have some kids who are so spoiled that they have mastered what teachers call "learned helplessness." The translation: If I am helpless enough, someone else will do everything for me. I have both black and white kids with this problem. Almost all of them are fatherless, only children. Momma and Grandma have doted on them so much that they won't/can't work. Many of these kids are horribly overweight. A very common attribute of these kids is falling asleep in class. Sadly, they are so overweight that they simply sit back and doze....or at least try to. Their reaction to anything that makes them uncomfortable is sleep. I suspect that they are also clinically depressed.
4. Anti-social thug want-to-bes: Almost always male students. In fact, I can't think of any thug girls. They talk about violence, especially violence toward women. They are totally detatched from reality as to their goals. One kid is sure he will be in the NFL. They are going to get rich selling drugs, being gangstas or "players." They take up a great deal of classroom time because they are unruly.
5. Party girls: They won't work in the classroom and like to hang out with the thugs-to-be. They won't stop talking.
6. Predators: I have one boy who specializes in hooking up with illegal immigrant girls. He hangs out with....
7. Party goys: these guys don't take any of school seriously. They are are children at play all the time.
I enjoy my work. I am a taskmaster. The children complain that I am strict. The female teachers tell me that most of these kids have never had a strong positive male influence in their life and that they don't know how to control me. I work their asses off. I don't accept incomplete work. If a student is a disruption, I march his ass to the principal who assigns additional onerous punishment. The female teachers love me, and it darn sure isn't for my looks.
As an aside, I recently polled nearly 100 non special ed middle school kids on a variety of subjects. The findings:
1. Less than 1/4th have read a non-school book this year.
2. The boys read sports mags and the girls read fashion and gossip mags. Black kids read Ebony.
3. Almost all have cable tv in their rooms and internet access at home.
4. Practically zero of them read a newspaper.
5. They get their news from Channel One and CNN.
6. Less than 10 percent have chores but more than half get allowances.
7. Less than 1/3 are in any youth group outside of school. Those that are are mostly in church youth groups.
8. Homework is mostly a thing of the past.
9. Very few of them go to bed before 11 and many are up past 12 regularly.
10. Many of them are or have been sexually active.
My poll group was mostly 12-14 year olds.