goto this webaddress:
192.168.0.1
A login screen should come up which should be in the manual. You're looking for "WEP" or wireless Encryption Protocol.
Basically, come up with a phrase and encrypt it. Now write that long ass number down somewhere.
On your laptop, you can look down at your lower right hand corner of the screen and you should see the wireless icon, right click that and click view available networks. Find your network and you should see the name of it with a little padlock stating that it's secured. Click the name and click connect, it will prompt you to enter that long ass number you should have written down. If you didn't write it down, shame on you, do a few Hail Mary's and do what you were previously told- write down that long ass number.
Once you've entered the long ass number, do it again to confirm. Hint, type this long ass number on something such as notepad or word or something so that you can just cut and paste. You won't be able to cut and paste from the prompt.
Once you've entered the long ass number, it should connect to the wireless router and receive an ip address.
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