Hiya, Tool -
I think if you open your mind a bit you'll find some really cool classical stuff out there.
[People do look at me funny when I get outta my truck at the gas station... NRA & Bush sticker on the bumper, and me wearing boots - and listening classical on the radio. But f*ck'em -I'm into compound political incorrectness.]
I was brought up in a sick & twisted fashion, piano lessons, etc so classical music is what I usu have on. I am not too big on opera myself (except for some Germanic stuff - Wagner & Richard Strauss.). Most of what I listen to is piano & chamber music, esp while I work - and the big "blood & guts" symphonies of Brahms, Beethoven, Schubert, Mahler.
Remember the movie Apocalypse Now - the "helicopter music"? That's Wagner's "Ride of the Valkyries". The music you heard on the TV show w/the Russian invasion of Berlin (and in other shows w/ Russian tank movements) is from Prokofiev's "Romeo & Juliet". [No, it's not an opera - just a collection of orchestral pieces called a 'suite'.]
For the mode you're in, I think you'll love Brahms Symphony #1 - esp the 1st movement.
And you can't go wrong with (Gustav) Mahler. (only in the last 40+ years has he gained popular stature up there with the 'big boys' like Brahms, Beethoven, Schubert. He was originally mostly noted for his conducting of the N.Y. Philharmonic in early 1900s.) This man just *knows* how to use his horns... Symphony #1 ("The Titan") - 4th movement has a lot of, shall we say, airflow. I can't get enough of his Symphony #2 (esp first movement) or Symphony #5 (whatta intro) - and his Symphony #6 is phenomenal - don't drive with it on or you'll be really revved up. [I was pulled over once by CHP for "conducting" while driving. No ticket, but the poor doofus was puzzled.]
The only advantage I can think of living near San Francisco is that they have a good symphony orchestra (after you weed out the modernistic freak music written by Ph.D's). And Thomas (the conductor) plays a lot of Mahler & Brahms.
About the only thing in the city worth driving in for - except, perhaps for the House of Prime Rib. ;-)]
Music like this grows on you. It's not for those in a vegetative state. (Which is why I'm a carnivore ;-)
-Bill Wiese
San Mateo, CA