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Posted: 3/3/2006 12:21:38 AM EDT
Last time I talked to her was about 1:45 AM, she was rather drunk. She said they were getting naked and getting in the hot tub. Should I be worried?
She still has to drive home. Should I tell her to just stay there and not risk driving? Not sure what effect the hot tub will have on her drunk level. |
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your girlfriend is naked with some other guy, drunk, and in a hot tub? And you are worried about her driving home? Hedonist?
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I never said it was a guy. |
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Why are you sitting at home? GET OVER THERE |
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we know you didnt... but he is there.... |
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And bring chips! |
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well, you said it was a date. If it's another woman, i think you may be missing out on a "Dear Penthouse" moment....
TJ Recon 3/187th |
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And post pics. |
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RAKKASAN!!! This is the first time they're meeting face to face, or face to whatever. So it's just them tonight. |
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No, don't worry. I'm takeing good care of her.
She's quite a little dancer! |
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She is no longer your girlfriend. |
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All your girlfrenz are belonging to us. |
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It's no big thing. We're cool like that. |
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If thats the case, ill take her out saturday night |
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I will take Sunday night. |
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Clarification, we're cool like that with the girl thang. |
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Who said I was a guy? |
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FieroLoki IS a girl |
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She doesn't do Tyler chicks. |
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I only work in Tyler. |
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+1 She's naked, wet and drunk.....her girlfriend probably is too..... best time for you !! No Expert |
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She does have a weakness for Canadians. Don't ask me. I was like, "WTF, Canadians? What makes them sexy? How do you even know by looking at them?" She said, "I don't know, I just think Candadians are hot!". |
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Im good eh'. LOL!!! |
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your values are in the shitter if you do "the open relationship" thing.
She doesnt respect you. And I suspect that you are hooked, addicted to the poon. Thats why you allow this to happen. Its time to get your spine back, be a man! Ditch that bitch! |
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WTF are you talking about? You have no idea. Seriously, you have NO idea. ETA ALLOW this to happen? Hell, this is my dream situation! She loves girls, I love girls that love girls, she finally has someone that accepts her for what she is and loves it about her. Nobody is taking advantage of anyone, we're just both taking advantage of being with another that has the same preferences/likes. I was married 9 years prior to this relationship, and in 9 months I feel more in touch and connected with this girl than I EVER was with my ex. And FYI, my ex and I are still GREAT friends, and she knows about the girlfriend situation, and she is totally ok with it and understands it. She knows I'm happier now than I ever was with her. |
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Or start apprenticing under TheWind. |
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LOL, yea ok man. She is only doing other people because she is unsatisfied with YOU. The only reason she still comes back to you is for a feeling of security, whether its your money she likes or the fact that you are just there for her to fall back on. She likes other peoples dicks and/or poons, realize that and you will figure out your place in the relationship. |
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LOL, whatever. |
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Whatever that was supposed to be, check the link or give a warning. Led to a porn site, my get someone in trouble if they click on it at work. Edited to make link dead. |
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Yea, this looks like a GREAT relationship, she's out getting her snog scrogged by who knows who and your home feeling so low that you decide to post about it online.
Just to clarify, Shes out naked, and drunk. You, at home trying to brag about being at home while shes out naked and drunk. Do they still make dunce caps?? |
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Gas is right man. I kinda avoided commenting on the situation, but, FWIW..... Mrs Goon is Bi. Always has been. I knew about it before we got married. She and I both consider being with ANY other person as being unfaithful. If you guys don't want to be exclusive, that's cool, but don't try to make yourself believe that because it's girl/girl that it's not being with another person. Being bi gives you no more right to see other people than being straight. |
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I'm not feeling low, and I'm not bragging. Was slow in here, sounded like a good thread to keep things going. I'm not asking for people to judge or slam their beliefs on me. Y'all need to lighten up a bit. But then again, I guess down deep inside I shoulda known the holier than thou's would show up eventually. |
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This is the first time she's ever gone out with someone without me there, and it was just cuz the other girl was apprehensive. All other times I have been there. And now, cuz of tonight, we're going out this weekend. This isn't an all the time thing. Tonight was just the first time I haven't been there, so it hit me, my girlfriend is on a date. lol. People that don't understand, can't and never will. Those of you that do, do. |
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You DO know you're on ARFCOM, right? |
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Actually it looks like your the first person to bring up religion.
I am not talking religion, I am talking about people treating one another with respect. And whether you admit it or not, she is not giving you any respect tonight. And if I had to guess, she pretty much runs the show in your relationship and your holding on because she has convinced you it's really cool. anyhow, If your cool with the way things are then more power to you, but it might be time for some introspective thought. |
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LOL, yep. Another reason I posted this. I know for some guys here the closest they get to sex are the BOTD threads. Thought I'd spice it up a bit. |
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Wrong. I run the show. I actually set this date up. Met the girl, talked to her, arrainged the night. And I do think it's really cool. Always have. She convinced me of nothing. And using the phrase "holier than thou" is not a reference to religion. |
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It should be a "never the time" thing if you guys are planning on haveing an exclusive relationship. I'm not judgeing you or anything...What I'm saying is that you guys do NOT have an exclusive relationship if one or the other is seeing other people sexually. Actually, most people that have responded to this actually DO undertand all to well what's going on, based on what you've shared. If you want a"swinger" type of open relationship, then, it's all good. Just be warned that it does not take a girl long to extrapilate sex with a girl out to sex with a different guy. I can almost hear the back and forth argument now. Don't worry, when you guys split we'll be here to err.... |
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better yet |
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We do have an exclusive relationship. We love ONLY each other. Just because we don't toe the company line as to the "accepted" idea of what a relationship should be does not make it wrong. At least not for us. Just like gun control isn't the right approach for most on this board, a sexually restrictive relationship isn't the correct approach for us. |
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Not really |
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Sooo, your girlfriend went out on a date, got drunk, and ended up in a hot tub. You thought it was so cool that you not only posted about it, but arranged another date and oh look! This time YOU get to go.
Okay....got it. It just sounds so much better coming from TheWind. |
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