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Posted: 2/14/2006 10:11:12 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/14/2006 10:12:22 AM EDT
[#1]
I'd say yes.
Link Posted: 2/14/2006 10:13:05 AM EDT
[#2]
Sure.
Family relations aren't just by blood. Never have been in many cultures.

Hell, I've got plenty of "Aunts", "Uncles" and "cousins" that I'm not related to by blood.
Link Posted: 2/14/2006 10:14:54 AM EDT
[#3]
I won't be haveing any bio kids, but, do have three boys that are my wife's.

I love them very much, but, I don't have any comparison.
Link Posted: 2/14/2006 10:16:04 AM EDT
[#4]
Bettr hope the wifey doesnt see this!
Link Posted: 2/14/2006 10:21:30 AM EDT
[#5]
Yes, I have one biologic daughter and one adopted daughter.  They are both well loved.
Link Posted: 2/14/2006 10:22:24 AM EDT
[#6]
Maybe not so much if they were pretty old by the time we met.  I don't see how I could not though for a child I raised from the time they were in diapers.  I doubt who's fluids created them would matter one little bit to me.  I don't have a good reference either though, as I have no step-kids.  I guess I can see where I might be more willing to fight all out for custody of those that were mine.
Link Posted: 2/14/2006 10:23:48 AM EDT
[#7]
Um, Bama, is it wise to post this on the internet?  This is one of those things which may be true but which the step-daughter should never find out.
Link Posted: 2/14/2006 10:25:49 AM EDT
[#8]

Quoted:
Bettr hope the wifey doesnt see this!



True. But I know she knows this and the feelings are mutual.

However, my step-daughter has made it very clear that if something happened to her mother she would rather stay with me than her biodad. And I would take care of her. I would offer to adopt her from her biodad and release him of any responsibility.
Link Posted: 2/14/2006 10:26:52 AM EDT
[#9]

Quoted:
Um, Bama, is it wise to post this on the internet?  This is one of those things which may be true but which the step-daughter should never find out.


+1

While what you say may be true, it seems a bit crass to post it on the internet.
Link Posted: 2/14/2006 10:28:35 AM EDT
[#10]
No way I could love a kid as much as I do my son.
Link Posted: 2/14/2006 10:28:38 AM EDT
[#11]

Quoted:

Quoted:
Um, Bama, is it wise to post this on the internet?  This is one of those things which may be true but which the step-daughter should never find out.


+1

While what you say may be true, it seems a bit crass to post it on the internet.



I do have a habit of being a bit direct.
Link Posted: 2/14/2006 10:29:55 AM EDT
[#12]
My wife was adopted and her parents love her just as much as they love their bio-son, and they adore our little girl...who looks just like her.

You'd never know that she was adopted.

Having said that, I have 3 children and it just wouldn't be possible for me to love someone else's kid as much as mine.  I guess I'm not built that way.

HH
Link Posted: 2/14/2006 10:34:02 AM EDT
[#13]
I used to think I couldn't.  I have four kids that I love more than life itself, but there are some other kids in my life that I love as my own and would do anything for them.
Link Posted: 2/14/2006 10:37:21 AM EDT
[#14]
My daughter is 17. I love her with all my heart. If I found out tomorrow she wasn't my biological offspring I couldn't love her any less. I AM her dad, she IS my daughter. End of story.





Now her mom I may hate a bit more, but not daughter.
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